Why Making More Won't Fix Your Money Problem

Hello, beautiful ladies. How are we doing? Y'all, it is the most peaceful rain we have. Look at how dark I am today. We have, like, the, the rain, which we don't ever get rain. Like Wisconsin, we had the biggest thunderstorms and the biggest rain, and here we don't get rain. But this morning we have, like, the most peaceful rain.  I'm so pumped. I really feel like... This is gonna sound wacky, but y'all are family here, soul family. I really feel like the water has been speaking to me. You know? Like, there is so much information held in water, but I just feel like being next to creeks and the rain and all of that, my downloads have been unreal.  Which y'all know I sit in the bathtub forever, so I shouldn't be shocked. I should not be shocked. But if you guys get a chance to go sit out in the rain or play in the rain or sit and listen to rain and have, like, binaural beats, let me know. Come back and let me know how crazy your downloads are. Okay?  Okay, perfect. A little, little bit of ad- ad- advice for you guys this morning. Okay, amazing. Welcome to our next webinar on wealth, growing your wealth. I am so excited. When I sat down to intuit what you guys needed to hear this week, I was tickled. I really was. Because I would have paid, I don't know, 30K for this information years ago, like a decade ago.  I would have given my left arm for this information. This information, this lesson that we're gonna talk about today, took me so many years to implement and to integrate and to wrap my head around growing your wealth and this emotional block that you guys have. I even... I was just reminiscing this morning, because it was such a profound thing and transformation that changed inside of me once I understood this block and then started taking action steps towards it.  But I was giggling to Tyler this morning as he was making coffee and the kids were getting ready, and I was... He's always like, "What are we talking about today? What's, what's going on in the community? What are you, what are you teaching on?" And I was telling him, and he was like, "Isn't that funny that for so many years, like 15 years ago, I said for five years that this emotional block is in your way of growing wealth."  And that he kept telling me, kept telling me, and did I listen to him? Absolutely not, you guys. I needed, like, 10 different sources to show me and to, like, repeatedly get stuck, get stuck, get stuck, get stuck. And he was just lovingly reminding me this morning that he had to tell me this so many times, and still I was like, "I don't quite get it."  Until I got it, and then I was like, "Oh my gosh, babe, look at this information." And he was like, "Duh, Maggie. Duh, I've been telling you this for so long," in the sweetest way possible. So I'm excited. I'm excited to go over this today. I think we have so much conditioning around pricing going up right now, right?  Like, we are at an all-time high for groceries. I was just talking to a friend last week, and she was telling me that she spent $1,400 for her family of five at Costco, and it was only gonna last her, like, two weeks. And she said that she, she's very money driven, and she is very good at budgeting, and she was looking back at older receipts and w- said that the same type of stuff she was buying, the same amount was $600 at Costco, just, like, a year or two ago.  Like, it has astronomically went up. Our groceries have, rent has, housing has. Like, there is an... Gas, right? There's an all-time high right now with how much pricing has gone up. Who has been feeling that effect? Have you guys been feeling that? Have you guys been feeling like money's been tighter? We're getting really strategic, right?  We're getting really crafty with our dinners and with our different ways that we are spending our money. Will you guys tell me in the chat, just 'cause I, this is part of my integration system for you guys, or hop on, tell me what's the biggest- feeling of resentment or tension right now with money and growing wealth for you?  Just because I like you guys to think of it beforehand so that we can work through it actively together throughout the webinar, and I can really hit it home with what we learn, the tools we're gonna go over, and I like to circle it back for those of you guys that are live so that you guys can get the very most out of these webinars.  So send it in the chat or unmute yourself if you feel vulnerable and ready to dive into the group here. What feels the hardest with money right now? Is it that money is slipping through your fingers? Is it that you feel like you can't stretch your money? Is it feel, is it feeling like you can't save for the things that you want to save for?  Is it feeling like everyone else around you has the most amount of money, and you feel like something's going on with you that you can't save, that you can't, you know, um, get to the place in life that you want to get to? What is it, what's going on for each of you? I'll unmute and speak. Um- Okay, Sarah.  You're the only micro- Just that we know I have finance issues. Um, I feel like for me it's everybody else needs something, so I have to, like, save in the event that something comes up. And so the thought of sort of building wealth has sort of been on my, like, lower. Mm-hmm. It's like I'm just, I have enough to do what I need to do.  Mm-hmm. I have stuff set aside. Mm-hmm. I almost have this, like, hoarding mentality about it, and I think that has a lot to do with that, like, it's not in my control if I lose my job, so I have to have all this money over here, and I would like to make my money grow- ... and not just sit there waiting for something to happen, you know?  Yeah. So it's not necessarily that unexpected things are popping up. It's almost a fear that you won't have enough. Yeah. Is that what it is? Yeah, yeah. Perfect. Perfect. And I know I do because, like I said, I have that hoarding mentality. So I always am like, "All right. I have X amount in my savings here. This is my emergency.  Here's a little bit of my fun. Here's my-" Mm-hmm ... if the kids have a medic- mostly for, like, if the kids have a medical expense that's gonna pop up, 'cause there always seems to be one, or- Mm-hmm ... the car, the house, those kind of things. But- So you're, so you're not feeling settled with what you've already accumulated because you have a fear that more will happen?  Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Perfect. Yeah. That's actually... I don't wanna say that's a good thing, the fear, the- Yeah ... the limiting, um, fear and the lack mentality- Yeah ... all that is obviously an imbalanced perspective- Yeah ... of it, but I feel like your thought process of saving or hoarding, like you were saying- Mm-hmm ... is actually really beneficial to growing your wealth.  Okay. Um, so I would give yourself a win there- Mm-hmm ... for saving, and kinda having that, um, predictive mentality of- Mm-hmm ... saving for a rainy day, or it also just, it, it goes to the law of preparedness, the spiritual- Mm-hmm ... energetic law of preparedness- Mm-hmm ... which is if you prepared for it, your odds of it actually coming to fruition goes way, way, way down.  So you can take a high energetic match towards, um... Let's just say your car breaking down, right? Mm-hmm. And let's say you get this intuitive hit of, "Oh my gosh, I think my car is going... You know, it's, it's not acting the same way. Something's funky going on with it," and you note that, you know, you're clocking that you have a high energetic match to it actually, um- Breaking down  doing well, right? Yeah. This, this is coming to me, 'cause we went to Escalante, Utah, for that little vacation, and I was learning on Reddit that we were, like, on these, like, back end roads. Like, nothing was out there. My sister kept telling me, like, um, you know, we just bought this new, this new SUV. So she was like, "You know, people get their tires popped.  There's just straight gravel. Like, you have no cell service. Like, we are literally out in the middle of nowhere." And my human self started being like, "Do we really wanna take our brand new SUV?" Mm-hmm. And she's like, "You have to wait..." You know, she was... She wasn't scaring me, but she's been there before with her- Uh-huh  um, husband. So she was like just trying to be really real, like we have to kinda have our stuff, and order an extra tire, tools, all of this stuff. And I started to get really worried about it, and so I was clocking that, you know, are we a high energetic match for our tire to be popped? Mm-hmm. Are we a high energetic match for our muffler to fall off?  All this type of stuff. And I actually... Our, our vehicle was in the 87 to 90%, which again- Mm ... is all reflective of- Right ... how we feel like we're getting to where we wanna be in life and all this stuff. But I decided to take that high energetic match down by doing a proactive, I'm gonna take our car in, I'm gonna make sure everything's up to speed.  We're gonna put these... Um, we just had got new, like, mountain tires on and all this type of stuff. But it's that- predictive. I'm gonna go ahead and be prepared for- There we go ... what I am a high energetic match to, drops it down to, like, 23%. Mm. And then our best friends went the week after, and they had their muffler fall off, their brakes-  stopped working on these long roads. Like- Oh ... it was crazy. But I was watching the energy of just our situation, and so I want to congratulate you, because that is part of the law of preparedness. If we're nervous about something, if we feel like we're a high energetic match, and if you go the extra step and have intuition and kind of clock it, just by taking those physical action steps of, "If this actually happened, what would I do?"  can bring it way, way, way down. So- Yeah ... that's incredible. And it's interesting, because I have had stuff pop up along the way, but it's like my money replenish very quickly. Yeah. I never got so far into the hole where I felt like... So that's an interesting concept to think about, yeah. Absolutely, yeah. And there's a l- there's so much around money and incidentals, which are things popping up that were unexpected that you can't account for, you know?  Right. And that is its own little category of what that energetically means. And yes, it will replenish, like you said. The universe will always step back in. But you have to... It's kind of like a little formula, where you are hitting some of those different markers just- Mm-hmm ... by yourself, that it's growing back fast for you.  Mm-hmm. And, um, that's really cool. That's awesome for you. Yeah, yeah. Good. So we just gotta work on that fear and that tackling. Yep. Maggie. Hey, girl, hey. Uh, hi. Sorry, I was in my car. I had to switch from my phone to my computer. You're never be sorry. Sorry about all that. My new thing is to tell people to never say sorry to me.  I've said it, like, three times to friends in real life last week. I'm like- I say it all the time ... do not say you're sorry ever- Okay ... to me again. Okay. I will not. Um, I'm sorry I said I'm sorry. Just kidding. Um- ... I think for me, um, I've always been pretty good with money, but I've also made a lot more than I'm making right now.  Mm-hmm. And so for me, I'm mad. Mm-hmm. And it's hard, because of course, you come... You, you get accustomed to a certain way of living, to a certain amount of spending, whatever. Um, I also pay for the majority of everything for my children. Mm-hmm. I'm divorced, and so, um, I, I pay for everything. I just do. Yep. And it's become a lot more as they've become teenagers.  So my bills have continued to go up, and then I had cancer, and cancer is outrageously expensive. It is. Right. Even though I'm out of treatment, I have a ton of bills from it, and I have ongoing things that I have to constantly do, and tests, and... Like, one lab test last week was $3,400. One lab. Wow. Yes. Yeah.  And it's... And I do stuff that's integrative that's not necessarily covered. So it's like my expenses are rising while my income is lowering. Mm-hmm. And all the money that I've made that I saved, I have, but I've been having to use, and I don't- Abs- ... like that. Absolutely. And I've had to use a lot of it. I've had to put some in the business.  I've had to put some towards cancer. I've had to put some towards kids, and it's not replenishing right now. It feels like there's- So for me, it's just a, a very big fear of I'm gonna run out. Yes. And then I'm screwed. Yep, and then I'm screwed. It's, again, that fear of and that lack of I'm not going to be taken care of.  Yeah. And that I'm having- Yeah ... to spend on all of these external sources, and I'm not gonna have enough for me to feel secure. Mm-hmm. And then it goes into deeper of, like, am I gonna be a good mom if I can't pay for X, Y, and Z, help with college, help with this, all these different kinda spinoffs of that- Right  first fear, right? Yes. Absolutely. So fear- And I've never had to worry before. Like, I've, I've always been okay. Right. A- Always been- And I've always had a- Yep ... you know, chunk of... on the side. Absolutely. Absolutely. And I would even say that... I don't wanna say that fear is healthy, right? We've had a lot of webinars- Yeah  on fear, but fear is also a form of your intuition talking to you. Sure. It's a form of your intuition- Organize ... being like, "Hey, I'm a little unsettled right here," and even a little predictive also of going, "I could see this coming down the pipeline. I could see this coming down the pipeline. I want to create a change where we start to feel a little bit more comfortable," right?  Mm-hmm. So we talk a lot about taking fear and transmuting it, and energetically decoding it, and getting it out of our field, right? Which is amazing. It's incredible. We don't want fear in our field, because it does a lot of damage to our electromagnetic fear, uh, field, and what we're recruiting in, right?  But I also want us to have that balanced sourch- source-like perspective that fear is actually a form of our intuition talking to us, and that it's not that we need to automatically, you know, transmute it, decode it, get it out of our field, which is great, but also thanking it, and being like, "I'm so glad you popped your head in.  There's something that I was missing here," right? "It was a key detail that I was missing that you're notifying me early on." And by the way, since all of you guys are here- I always, um, I always say this, but I do intuitively look in to make sure that what I'm saying is accurate for those that are here live and for those that are watching this on the replay.  But you guys are all very highly intuitive, right? And when I look into this collective here live and on replay, your intuitions will be about, it's sitting right now about six to eight months out. Okay? So meaning that if you're getting a fear coming right now, and you always wanna intuitively back it up, but it's likely  I'm gonna give Maggie's example here. Um, you were so great in sharing and being vulnerable. If you have this fear, like things are going down, right? The bank account, the savings account is going down. I have a fear something's gonna pop up that I'm not gonna be able to handle. I need another blood draw, right?  You've got some health scares on your mind that possibly you'll need to get another lab drawn, or you'll need to get this test, blah, blah, blah, or your kids will need you. It's likely that your intuition c- is coming up right now to be like, in six to eight months, we could be a high energetic match to this situation, to this situation, to this situation.  So although we want to always nip it and get it out of our field, it's also a really good teaching point here to be like, "Hmm, this could be my intuition notifying me six to eight months early of something I am in trajectory of right now becoming a high energetic match to something." Does that make sense?  Mm-hmm. So it's not a good, it's not a good emotion to sit in, but also super helpful, right? Super helpful to be like, ooh, in, in this amount of time, I'm kind of on the path towards having a large incidental. And an incidental within our wealth programs or business cohorts, the definition for that is, um, when you have to pay for something that you were not expecting to pay for.  So something's coming in that you didn't account for, that's not in the budget, that you typically don't have to pay for, and it is popping up out of nowhere, okay? That's kind of the terminology for an incidental. And so can ... That, that fear, although not well, can also be helpful to show you an incidental that's coming up, or to push you to join this webinar, to push you to grow your wealth, to push you to understand wealth a little bit more energetically.  So there's all these really important key components of these fears and different things that are going on for you guys within wealth issues, okay? Does that make sense? Okay. Um- Julie, feeling like there's not enough to keep caught up on, like it's flying out faster than it's coming in. Canceled subscriptions, changing utility companies, and then medical and dental bills are high right now.  Yeah, so it just feels overwhelming, too. Like, there's too much going on for you to feel confident in your ability to grow wealth, right? Now, when we feel stretched, right, when we feel like we're ... We have this fear. Like, something is going to come, something could come up or there could be an incidental down the road, which hint, there will be.  There always is going to be an incidental until you kind of ... There's, there's a lot of formulas to it where you can take it down drastically and you won't ever find yourself in a position where things are popping up. It's all a reflection, right? It's reflective based. But when we are kind of pushed and feeling tight, what are some of our human action steps that we go to do when we are feeling this fear creep in and this unsettling feeling creep in?  What are some of the things that we are drawn to, that our human or our spouses are like, "This is a good idea"? We pull back, right? Okay, so that means maybe when you buy this organic whatever, olive oil, cold pressed, you pull back and you're like, "You know, I'll just get the one in the plastic bottle. I don't really need cold press this time.  I'm gonna have to, I might have to pull it back," and that helps us take an action step and kind of eases the worry a little bit, right? Okay. What are some other things that we do? Um, cut back on unnecessary spending or what we think are extras. Okay. We look at ... Yeah, so getting, looking at bills and going, "What can we shift here," right?  That is going to cut back a little bit. Absolutely. What about starting to sell things, right? How many of us have been in a period of our life, I've talked about this a couple times, I think, of this, like, damn washer we had where we, we sold it and we were, like, young and we felt like we had so much money, but we started selling things in our early 20s just to get a little mo- money back, right?  And did it work really long term? No. Like, we went and spent sushi, probably $100 that night, and it was, like, half of it and it was very unresponsible, irresponsible. So we start selling things, okay? And what else? What el- what are other ways that we can start changing our lifestyle when we start to see this fear creep in?  Possibly getting another job, right? Working another job. We start going, "Hm, maybe I can take in kids. Maybe I can, um, start g- gaining another income or I can, um, you know, just pick up another shift," right? My husband has always had the ability to pick up extra shifts and work in overtime and stretch his schedule out more, right?  Side jobs, extra hours, yes. All of those things. Now, when you look at that and you go, "Yeah, these are all great solutions in our human state for growing our wealth," right? We're gonna look outside of us to figure out how we can change the numbers mathematically in our budget. Would you guys say that that's a, a good thing, or a not so good thing, or a not, a not good thing?  Like, where are you guys at within this? I'm gonna say it's probably a negative- A negative? ... because it's probably just, it- it's just feeding more into it. I, I bet. Feeding Yeah. I bet. Like, I don't know, but that's what I bet. I bet that's the answer. Well, I've always ... My dad, I mean, I grew up in a family business, and we always, we were involved in the expenses and stuff.  And you can't, you can't cut expenses to get to profit. You just can't, and that's kind of the same mentality. It is, yep. Anyone else disagree with her? Or would you guys be within the same ... We love our Maggie, but anyone feeling any different? Like, it could be a good thing. This has worked out for me in the past.  Any other side quotes to that?  Okay. When we, and these are perfectly normal human responses, right? Like, our parents teach us this. Our grandparents teach us this. You talk to friends and family, and it is a physical action step which can be seen as really great, right? A physical action step to make moves to get us out of an uncomfortable feeling, right?  So it can be seen as a positive. But with, and again- This is something that I've had to learn the hard way, okay? This is, like, years and years of doing the same shiz and expecting different results. Like, back in the day, right, just a little personal context, when we first started having kids, Tyler was the only one working and I was the one home, right?  And then the more children we had, the more our expenses grew, right? We stayed in the same house, we had the same cars, but we had d- diapers, we had kids in sports. Like, our money was growing smaller as our kids were growing older and as I was trying to figure out all my business stuff, and we've never used my business ever for our living and all this stuff.  So we got pushed into these corners, right? And I empathize and I, and I was there, and that's how I can bring you guys this information because I did start to think of, "How can I take in more kids," right? Can I take in more kids to play with my kids? Did that once, you guys. It was horrible. Oh my gosh, I can still see this pudgy little kid that got dropped off.  I thought this was such a great idea. I was like, "I'm gonna bring in all this money. He's just gonna be at my house. I'm already at my house." And I was, you know what I was? I was so turned off because I had just been through, this was when Brooks was, like, so little. He was, like, nine months, and this kid was six months.  And I had just gotten done, like, getting into a routine with Brooks, and he had slept on me the whole time, and I was just not into trying to put another kid to sleep. Like, I was like, "I feel like I'm gonna pull every eyelash out if I have to, like, co-sleep with this kid, too, and now Brooks is finally learning to sleep."  And I just was, was just, like, not a good situation, you know? I wasn't mentally there to help and give all this love to this kid 'cause I was so tapped out with Brooks. He was just always on me, always touching me, always sleeping with me, which is so great, but I was like, "I cannot do another one." Like, I, I don't even know how you do both of these at the same time.  So I was there. I was like, "Let's bring in another kid. Let's bring in another income. Let's have Tyler work extra," right? And then you get pushed where you're like, "Well, now we don't have family time. He's gone all the time." And you get all these different things, right? So this is coming from a place of been there, done that, and I had to be pushed, like I said, to learn how to grow wealth without necessarily changing our external solutions, external surroundings, external lifestyles.  But I wanna start breaking down the why for that because a lot of people watching this will go, "No, those are great ideas," right? Getting extra income, selling our stuff Those are all great ways to change the framework, the budget, the Excel spreadsheet of what we are making and what we are, you know, having come out every single month.  But energetically, okay, when we look at it from an energetic lens, that's a physical lens. We have to have both, right? Who listened to the podcast last week? The energetic and the physical, right? Back to the foundations. We have to have a lens of both. The physical seems, to our human self, that it checks out, but when we take and we look at it from an energetic lens, we will see the negatives of it impacting our electromagnetic field, okay?  When we are... Let's just, let's just say, let's say we get an extra job, okay? And let's say, we'll use my example. I'm bringing in this extra kid, right? Does my soul actually wanna do it? Am I feeling joyful? I'm trying to remember his name. It was, like, Harvey. I can see his face right now. He was so cute. He was p- it was Porter.  That's what it was. It was Porter. Porter. He was so cute. Um, so cute. Was my soul actually wanting to do that? Okay, can you guys... You guys are so, so smart. You guys have been around the block. Tell me some of the emotional imbalances I would have had in my field when that sweet little Porter was at my house.  Can you guys tell me some of the narratives you could guess that I was sharing with myself, embodying 24/7?  What would I... I don't want this kid here, but he's here. What are some of the things I'm sharing to myself? So think of it in your own situation, right? You're pushed to get another job. You don't really wanna do it. What are the, the emotional ingredients you're broadcasting when you're pushed to that state?  I just keep thinking, like, I'm not good enough. Like, I'm not doing enough. I, I am, I'm not doing enough, and- I'm lacking ... I'm lacking, and because I'm- Well, then you're gonna bring in more lacking ... yeah, because I'm lacking, I'm having to do crap I don't wanna do, right? You're, you're going, "I'm not smart enough to figure out a way how to keep my money, how to grow my wealth, so I'm having to be pushed to do something that feels unaligned to me right now."  Does that make sense to you guys? Another one: I don't have any control, right? I don't have control over my life. My life gets handed to me. I don't have any solutions, and that is a layer up from that bottom layer that Maggie just said, which is, "I'm not smart. I'm not capable. I don't know how to handle wealth.  I don't know how to handle money, and because I don't know any of these skillsets, I'm having to do stuff I don't wanna do," right? Can everyone see that deep layer to all of these examples? Same exact line. Um, I need some graphics here. We need, like, a whiteboard right here. I have one right there, but we need, like...  I feel like I need to have, like, a, a podium. Not a podium, 'cause that's lame, but, like, a whiteboard where I can, like, touch and talk like I used to do, and then bring it back to you guys. Okay. We'll work on that. Same exact tiered, right? The top tier is I don't, I don't get to do what I wanna do, right? Layers underneath that.  I don't have control. Layers underneath that. I'm not smart. I'm not capable. Do you guys see that? Do you guys see the whittling down I'm doing of the thought process? Is anyone stuck on this? Julie, do you get this? Kim? Do you guys see how it's going from, like, surface level, deeper, deeper, deeper, deeper, right?  And that is the same for all of these examples we just gave. So even back in the day, right, I bring home Porter, I'm having those same thought processes, right? I don't get to do what I wanna do. I'm looking at other people that get to do what they wanna do. That's part of the layering, right? So in my mind, because I don't get to do what I wanna do, I don't get to have the money I ha- I wanna have, I am focusing on that, and guess what I start seeing?  This stay-at-home mom gets to just be a stay-at-home mom. I viv- like, you guys, I vividly remember this. Had a really good friend, Kirsty, and she had the same kids, my same age, and I go over there, and she's like, "We just paid off our house." And I was like, "What? What? We're, like, 25. What do you mean you just paid off this nice house?"  I was, like, so, like, taken aback. Like, I was like sh- like, "Should I be pay... Tyler, should we be paying off our house in cash right now?" Like, I was so comparing, right? But what is in my field? I don't get what I want, and now I'm seeing everybody shoving that back in my face. I open Instagram. I'm seeing, um, MLM moms that are like, "I work five hours a week with my kids, and I make 7 billion bajillion dollars in just one year of being a part of this company," right?  And you're like, "What? That girl gets that?" Right? So all around you, you start recruiting in more mirrors, right? More mirrors. More mirrors. And it's building the tension. It's building the worry. It's building the fear louder and louder and louder into your field. Do you guys see that? So- We l- we dice it anyway, right?  So that's just with bringing in Porter, okay? Poor guy. Bet you he didn't think that I'd be a part of his... He'd be a part of my webinars 10 years later. Cutie pie. Uh, you start to dice it another way, right? I go, we s- we start feeling more tight and that fear and that worry, and I go, "Tyler, go pick up some extra shifts," right?  "This weekend you're supposed to have off, you need to go pick up extra shifts and work extra," right? And it gives a temporary relief, right, where I go, "I have a plan. I have a plan in place and my anxiety's coming down temporarily because now I have a plan in place." Do you guys see that? It's a, it's kind of like a trick, right?  Because we're trying so hard to relieve the uncomfortable feeling we have inside of us of feeling tight on money that we go and make a plan, which is what we should be doing, right? That's how we get our anxiety down. But then it backfires in our electromagnetic field and what's sitting actually in our energy field.  You guys see how that can kind of like backfire on you a little bit? So I go tell Tyler, "Go work this extra weekend," and then it's Brooks and I at home on the weekend. Brooks is meeting his, missing his dad. I am burnt out because I have a Velcro baby on me at all times, and I'm still sitting in that bitterness and resentment.  I don't get what I want. I don't have control. Everyone else gets what they want around me. Whittle down, whittle down, whittle down to I'm not smart. If I was smart, I would like figure this out and like have more wealth in my account. And I'm not unique and special, right? That's another ingredient of like if I was unique and special, I'd have, I'd have better solutions inside.  I mean, all of these different thought processes, right? That's at the bottom layer. But it doesn't matter how you dice it, what external solutions you try, it still goes down the same pathway. Do you guys see that?  Even if I sell my stuff, which I'm sorry to break it to you, you should never sell your stuff when you're needing extra money. It puts so much junk in your electromagnetic field, because is it coming from a balanced emotional space? Are you selling it because you're like, "I'm parting ways with this. I truly no longer need this.  I'm, I get the choice," right? So if you're ever wondering, am I neutral about this or am I not neutral about this, it's going, do I have a choice in the matter? Do I literally sit there from a balanced place and go, "Should I sell this or should I not?" And I get to like really make a decision based on my soul.  Do you guys see how that's from more of a balanced approach? If I'm going, "Ugh, have to sell this workout equipment because I have to make m- ends, ends meet. I don't want to do it-" But I'm fearful, I'm anxious, I feel like I need to do it or else, that's an imbalanced approach. So when we're thinking to ourselves, "I have to sell this, I have to sell this, or else," it's, it's hurting you bigger in the long run because you're shaping your electromagnetic field and causing a big time reflection.  Does that make sense, you guys? How many of you guys have felt like this, right? Like, "Oh, I should go do this. I should..." You know, how many of you guys are gravitating right now towards some of these different external solutions we just talked about? Right? Yes, it reminds me of Band-Aids, like prescriptions instead of getting to the root cause.  Tyler says this all the time, right? He's a pharmacist. He's like the crunchiest pharmacist you'll ever find. He'll have people come in and he'll be like, "Have you ever heard of turmeric? Ha- do you, do you ever chew on raw garlic?" Like, he is that pharmacist that will take you down the natural route, and then if you don't want it, don't want it, don't want it, he's like, "Here's your pharmacy prescription.  But here's all the side effects, baby." But he says the same thing, right? He sees the same customers time and time again, and he works, he, he actually works really hard on sharing both the positives and the negatives, what's going on in their body, how this can help with this natural remedy. And he has a good turnover rate of people going prescriptions, prescriptions, prescriptions.  Their sixth time seeing him they're like, "I'm not really feeling that well." And Tyler's like, "Have you ever heard of raw garlic?" And then it's like then they take the chance, and then they step into it. But how cool is that, that he's working on the Band-Aid versus the root cause, but in a loving, gentle environment and way where they themselves, right, are not told what to do.  But he's giving either approach, and they're able to try it out for themselves and figure out what actually resonates with them and what they want to do with their body, right? Kind of goes back to that when we're told what to do, we go, "I'm actually doing the opposite." Like, you can't tell me nothing, right?  Our kids are like, "Don't ever tell me I need to wear a clean sweatshirt to school. I'm gonna wear that yogurt-stained one." So it kind of goes back to that. But yeah, the bala- the Band-Aid versus the root cause. The other thing that I'm seeing in a lot of your guys' field is this same concept of filling it with an external solution, but going, "When I start this business, when my intuition business takes off and I'm making thousands of dollars a month and I have really high rates, then I will grow my wealth.  When I do this job and I get promoted and I'm climbing up the corporate ladder and everything's success... then I have wealth." Then I'll have the life I want. I just have to wait. I just have to keep working really hard, and I just have to wait for that time where everything change, changes on a dime, right?  My business takes off, I have tons and tons of clients. That's just when I get to have the wealth. Not today, but when that shiny little diamond over there takes off, then I get to experience that. Have any of you guys had that before? Kinda is that like when this happens, then I get to experience happiness, right?  When my business is super successful, at that time, that's when I... Oh my gosh, I was stu- Th- Like, that's what I was stuck in, was this trap back in the day of like, just when I become a millionaire. I know I can do it. You just need to hold on. We just need to wait. And it's like that is hurting your electromagnetic field, right?  'Cause it's pushing off and going, I can't find wealth or happiness right now. I gotta wait. I gotta wait till this pans out. I gotta wait till I get this client. I gotta wait till this happens. And if there's one thing I can tell you guys with working with so many businesses, so many business cohorts, so many entrepreneurs and, and people that are trying to grow their wealth, is it's never overnight.  It's never you wake up, right, and all of a sudden you have a million-dollar business. It is brick by brick by brick by brick. People like to sell us that there's overnight success, that you can literally change your bank account in a second, but nine times out of 10, and we've talked about some of the different loopholes to this before, nine times out of 10, it's a slow build-up, right?  You are trying to put the roof on before the bricks. Yes. Yes. There's no structure there, Kimberly. There's just a roof floating in the air, which my brain just went, it's possible. Could it be? I don't know. It's possible. But yeah, we need to go and, and build it sturdy, right, we've talked about that, before, before we can have that roof on.  So if you guys also find yourself in that, like, oh, oh, this was another one, right? When all my kids are in school, then I'll have wealth, because then I'll be able to get a job, and then I'll be able to bring in extra money, right? It's all of this when, when, when, when. Which is again showcasing yourself, I...  It, it's all the same. It's all the same. It's showcasing yourself. I don't get what I want. Other people get what I want. I have no control. Whittle down, whittle down, whittle down. I'm not unique. I'm not smart. I'm not special. I'm not capable. So you guys will all have these different- wealth blocks that are going down that same vein.  Can you guys spot them, what they are? Think back to what you told me in the beginning that was your obstacle, and can you guys see how you are going down that same trajectory? Does that make sense? So let's, let's just, um, let's do Julie. Feeling like there's not enough to keep caught up, like it's all flying out faster than it's coming in.  Feeling like you have to go and cancel those subscriptions, and char- like, call the... Can you see how those external things and that fear and that limitation is coming from those neural pathways of, "I don't have control"? Here's another one that's gonna kick y'all in the pants that's just coming to me. The government gets to control what I have access to.  This is not you, Julie. I love you. But these will be some of my other conspiracy theorists on the call. The government is out to get me. They get to control my air, my food, my money, the Federal Reserves, Soros, right? Like, love you guys. Been there. But it's, it's going, "Other people get to dictate my life, and I just have to succumb to it.  I don't actually have the control." And do you see, Julie, how that goes down, down, down, down to, "I don't feel like I'm capable of growing my wealth"? She's like, "Yeah." It, like, literally every time you said something. You don't feel smart enough. You don't feel capable. You don't... Everything that you said, I'm like, "I think that."  Right? Yeah. And s- that, it's so, it's so interesting how the human mind works because if we don't sit with ourself or have somebody kind of use a spotlight on these blind spots, it sits in that surface level, right? It sits in that everyone gets to control, everyone else gets this, right? Social media is a huge contagion for that because all you see are people getting what you want.  And then the tech companies literally will, um, they will make and create your feed according to your insecurities. Did you guys watch that documentary on social media? I'll have to get you the name of it. It is crazy the back end research towards social media and how they cultivate your profile based on your insecurities.  Like, it is all s- psychologically proven. It is absolutely scary and psycho, but it will really light a fire under your butt to understand the the impact that wasting our time on those platforms are doing to our electromagnetic fields. I'm gonna preach no social media for the rest of my life. I might die on that hill, I'm not sure.  But it really does, it, it hones in on your insecurities of everybody else gets this, and I do not. So, um, it's a part of that recruitment in. Social media is a huge part of the mirrors that you recruit in to show you where your imbalances are. But it is wild when we do not understand the energetic layers to it, we just sit right at that top of that surface level, and how many of us sit and spew or have in our life, and talk to our friends and to our family.  Like, I even last week when my girlfriend was going, "Oh, Costco 14..." There was a human part of me that was like, "Yeah, man, they're so expensive. Yeah." Like, you kinda get into that energy of wanting to, like, be seen, and like, and inter- interact in that, like, negative state and that limited state. It's so easy to get caught into, right?  And caught up into. So a lot of us will stay at this very surface level space, but I think it's incredible that, Julie, you recognize that the further down we got in layering, you were hearing it audibly and being like, "Yeah, I feel that." You know? Because a lot of people, you have to connect the dots.  They're sitting at the surface level and they're like, "There's no way that me wanting to sell this antique dresser my grandma gave me is telling me that I am not unique and special," right? And then you gotta go, "Well, let's work on it here. Let's consciously bring it in here." But for you to hear that and go, "Yeah, I can see how I feel that way deep down," that's incredible.  That's a huge, huge, huge win, and so proud of you guys for being able to, like, have that veil lifted, 'cause it's hard. It's hard when you're looking at yourself and you're, you're hearing, like, typical, normal stuff you've grown up with for 30 years could be hurting our energetic field, right? And hurting our ability to grow wealth.  Okay. Maggie, do you feel like with what you shared, you can see that whittling down of how you feel like other people have successful businesses, or even, like, old Maggie had a successful business? Yeah. I mean, my first five years, I... Yeah, I had a great, successful business. And yeah, the lady that's crushed my business is killing it, and it, I drive past her house every day, and I...  It's lovely. Yeah. It's lovely, right? Yeah. It's, it's lovely. She lives down the ro- she bought a house down the road from me. Oh my gosh. That's a mirror. I know. I'm like, "Get out of my energy field, lady." Yes. Another little- Yeah, no, totally. I can. And the whole comparison thing, like I said, even just going to training last week and, and listening to these other owners who are- killing it.  And I'm like over here, nine years in, and I was like, "Yeah, I used to." Used to. I used to. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And it goes back, I'd say for yours, 'cause you guys will each have these more personalized roots to root translations to you, right? So Maggie's would, I would say is a little bit more I'm incapable of getting back to that point again, right?  Like, there's- Yeah, I've said it ... too much that has- I mean, those words have come out of my mouth. I'm like, "It's never gonna be what it was." I've said that. Right. Mm-hmm. So I would say your, your whittling down is a little bit more I'm incapable, whereas some other students that are listening to the live and the replay might have a little bit different, you know, um, variation to that root cause.  Mm-hmm. But it's all coming down to how we view self- Yeah ... and what we view as possible. I've always compared myself to my brother also. Yeah. Always. And it's always, I've, I've always felt like I've never, I'm never gonna live up to his level of intelligence, his level of success. He's the golden child. Yep.  Even though my parents love me dearly, it, I've always had that in the back of my mind, too. And how much of this gets cultivated in young childhood, you know? Mm-hmm. How much of that is in these small statements we make to our children of like, "Do you see this c- this sibling? They don't have trouble getting ready for school.  You are a sloth," right? And, and you start to think- I love sloths. I know. They're so cute. Um, oh, yeah. That's how you felt about your dad. Yeah. So it starts young, right? Where we start to have this comparison, or we start to hear things of other people's strengths and other people's weaknesses, right? And instead of having a enriching, neutralized environment, I'm just doing a lesson on this for my kids' school next week, um, about how we're all unique and special, right?  And we have this idea as a child that, oh, this person's in sixth grade reading level. I wanna be them. I wanna be them. But it's like, do you? Like, what is your strength? Your strength is literally in acting. That kid can't act at all, but you excel. You're off the charts in your em- in your ability to embody a different character, memorize lines fast.  Like, they don't have that, and there's not a comparison, right? That's why, like, school can be challenging, when we don't have teachers that see our strengths and see our weaknesses, and not have teachers and influencers and leaders that are trying to make everybody- have that same strength, you know? You know what I'm saying?  Like, nobody could make me love math when I was a kid. Still to this day, Brooks will bring home stuff, and I'll be like, "Honey, I just don't care. I don't care. I don't care about decimals. You gotta go ask your dad that because I, I'm gone. I didn't pay attention in school. I'm not gonna pay attention now. I love you so much, but, like, that's a daddy job.  Daddy loves math. Mommy, mommy does not." So I think that we have these role models, though, that are like, "You have to be good at reading. You have to be good at math. You have to be at these levels." And it's like- Stupid standardized testing, all the stupid testing that- Literally used my intuition all throughout grade school.  I'm like, "C, you look amazing. Num- like, letter C. Like, I think you're it today." Like, I think I literally, I look back, and I did all of my standardized testing with feeling into what answer looked a certain way to me. You know what I mean? Like, I did not care at all about... And I also did not do very well on them.  And also, w- am I doing like, intuition wasn't trend at the time, but also, like, am I doing anything with that stuff right now? No. Like, it literally, my sole purpose has nothing to do with regurgitating information. If I don't feel it, if I don't feel it in my soul, if I don't have, like, a human connection and a pattern to decode, like, I just, I don't give a rip.  I just, it's not in my field. Tyler, on the other hand, memorizes things for a living. Like, he can spit out generic and, uh, prescriptions, and that's part of his sole purpose. But that's why when we go back to these younger years, right, a lot of these neural pathways are established in these younger years of having role models that didn't see us for who we are and have the ability to see our strength and our sole purpose and what we're gonna do with it, and it really starts these lack and limited neural pathways that unfortunately, but fortunately, 'cause we're all here on purpose, all at divine timing, we're all working through right now, you know?  Um, Chelsea, my dad still brings up that I should have been an accountant, and I hate that. Please don't be an accountant. No. No. I just feel like, yeah, like, it's, it's crazy, and that also goes back to this whole, like, "What do you wanna be when you grow up?" And the kid's, like, six. Like, "I don't know." But we, like, pressu- even at 18, "What do you wanna be?  What do you wanna be?" It's like, how many people are walking around with, like, 70k in debt with their college degree and switch, like, five years out of it? They're like, "I actually don't like, don't like this at all, and I just spent all this money on a college degree that I'm not going to utilize because my brain wasn't fully developed at 18, and I didn't even know who I was yet."  But I, there's such a pressure to get that figured out, right? Okay. So again, um, another little tip that this reminded me of is Something to keep your eyes on, because most of you guys are mothers, but this can also apply if you do not have children but you have these inside-out voices. Watch what your kids are saying.  If your kids start going, "Oh, I wish we had this bigger house. I wish I had this different car." I... Related to money, right? And they're going, "I wish, I wish, I wish. Wish we could go on vacation like Suzy does every single year, and she gets to bring two friends, and she gets to go to Palm Beach, and I wish that was me."  Start looking at the inside-out voices around you, 'cause that's going to be a good indicator that you're holding that in your field. Does that make sense? That, that lack, that scarcity, that, "I wish, I wish, I wish things were different." That's going to come out for some of you guys in your verbiage from your children and the different people around you, and it's a good intuitive check to be like, "Ugh, like are they picking that up from me?  Is that something I'm holding on high in my field?" 'Cause either it'll be a direct pulling from your energy field where they're pulling your broadcast and playing that script, or it's a lot of previews for you going, "Ugh, like I'm seeing somebody else have that type of mentality. Am I having micro levels of that?  It's gonna keep growing if I don't catch it quick." My son just did that to me last night. Because he came home and he wasn't feeling good, and so I was like, "Well, what do you want?" And he gave me this... I was like, "I'll run to Whole Foods real quick," 'cause there's one like right outside our neighborhood. He gave me this list of stuff.  It was like, "I want onions, I want garlic, I want honey, I want lemons, I want immunity shots." And he's like, "I'll pay for it." And I was like, "No, Noah, I got it, you know?" Yeah, yeah. "I can pay for... I can buy this for you." And I was like, man, he's just... I, I caught it right away. That was like- Yeah ... those little things where I'm like, I thought, "Is this really necessary for all these things?"  That was like the thoughts happening- Uh-huh ... in my head. Like, do I really need to go buy all these things? And he could sense that, for sure. He was totally reading your thoughts. Yeah. Yeah. 100%. 100%. 'Cause I have that thought about most things. I'm like, are these necessary thought... Are these necessary things to buy?  Yeah. That's like my money thought process. Is this necessary? But I wanna stop you right there, because that is a great thought process to have. To intuitively... I would even use your intuition for it, 'cause human self can get really like- Yeah ... um, like I said, it can either be a, from a place of lack when you're sitting there like, like the olive oil example where it's like- Yeah  "Mm, we're not gonna get what we really want. We're gonna come back down and get this like $5.99 one, and then we're gonna hate it every time we use it, and we're gonna like-" Yeah ... make our skin crawl every time we use it, and we're gonna be like, 'This isn't the best of the best,' blah, blah, blah." Is it coming from a place of scarcity, or are you neutral on it?  And whatever intuition says to you, you can openly roll with. There's gonna be two different- Yeah ... energy vibes- Mm-hmm ... to that question. Mm-hmm. And just seeing where it's derived from is gonna help you move forward with that. Yeah. I definitely can do that on some things. Mm-hmm. 'Cause, like, when eggs went to, like, t- $13 for- Mm-hmm  a 12-pack, I was like, "Eh, do we need that?" Do we need eggs? "I eat a ton of eggs." But now I'm like, "Well, the benefit might be-" We're not gonna use eggs. Yeah. Egg-less. Well, and the other thing too is with a trained intuition, you can go, if your biggest high value right now is to grow your wealth- Mm-hmm ... will eating eggs, will purchasing these eggs grow my wealth?  Sounds crazy. Yeah. In human form, but I get into this in the podcast I think this week or next, but a lot of the stuff that, quote-unquote, "grows my wealth" that I pass through the intuitive filter are wild, wild things like actually spending the money to have a weekly date night. Mm-hmm. Doesn't feel like it would grow my wealth, but- Mm-hmm  connecting with my husband fills that imbalanced area that needed to be clicked on in order for me to be balanced across the chart. My wealth is growing. Mm-hmm. Like, I'm literally gonna get more clients, I'm gonna get more new people because I'm in a more balanced state. Mm-hmm. Or sitting at the creek while it's raining.  Sounds crazy. Had a great intuitive download that I did for a podcast that then had 10, 10 or 15 people, new people find me. That's growing my wealth. So it's kind of surrendering to that human approach of, like, what grows wealth, and going, when you have that trained intuition, you have that leg up to be like, "Is this going to grow my wealth?"  Is a good intuitive- That's good ... a really good- Yeah ... intuitive filter.  Okay. So with understanding where our neural pathways are, and how we keep outsourcing to some of these different solutions that then kind of backfire on us by tainting, if you will, our electromagnetic fields, what we will begin to talk about at some point or through one-on-ones or in another, um, time and place, is that you have the ability to grow your wealth with where you are right now.  There is a formula, there is a plan of how you have money coming in, you save a specific portion of it, a specific percentage, and you start to play this, uh, game plan, and you can grow your wealth where you are today. It's not looking externally for changing different things. It's going, "I have control today with the financial situation I am currently in."  'Cause here's the thing that I want you guys to know. When you have those thoughts of, "Oh, when I'm a millionaire, then I'm gonna have wealth. Oh, when I get this business up and popping, then I'm gonna have wealth. Oh, oh, oh," you don't know how to save and grow your wealth with what you have today, you will not know how to save and grow your wealth with what you have in a year from now, five years from now, 10 years from now.  It is a skill set that I don't care if you bring in $30,000 a year. This is my best friend Tommy. He's a teacher. Their family has, like, blown me away. They... He literally makes $30,000 a year in Wisconsin. His wife stays home, and they are not in a limited mindset at all. He literally is, like, the most energetically wealthy man.  Like, he has the best mindset to it, but that's what I'm talking about. Even if you have $14 an hour job, which I don't even know if it's legal anymore, you still have the ability to grow your wealth. I've worked a lot in my business cohorts with a lot of businesses. I don't care how much money your family makes right now.  You still have the power, the control, the capability to grow your wealth today. And I have worked with people that bring in six figures, seven figures, eight figures, and guess what? They're still learning how to grow their wealth at that point. They are the people that will be negative if they do not have this skill set or have a zero at the end of the month even with those large figures because they do not get the skill set.  They will spend it on Lamborghinis and this trip, and they will continue month after month getting negative or going zero. I don't care what the end of your monthly income is or how much your family makes. It's a skill set you have to learn how to grow your wealth with where you're at in order to earn the right to get large amounts of wealth and have it continue growing and growing and growing.  It's a very skewed thought process, again, that Tyler wanted to murder me on for years at a time because I just quite did not understand it back in the day. But even if you make those big numbers, if you don't know how to grow your wealth, th- it will continue slipping through your fingers. It will continue evaporating.  It will continue disappearing. You will continue to make imbalanced purchases on impulse, on reflections, on cravings, on emotional imbalances until you learn how to grow your wealth. Does that make sense to you guys? Have you guys heard of that before? So is that, like, physically growing, I don't know how to say it, physically growing money without maybe changing something externally, like- 100%  something that I'm, I just was thinking about is I used to go to the grocery store. I was, that grocery store example where I would go and I'd be like, "This used to cost me $60. It's now costing me $135." And I would say every time I would check out, I'm like, "Ugh, another 150, another whatever." And now I've just, I've stopped focusing on it, and I've actually noticed I'm still, feel like I'm buying the same amount of groceries, but they seem a lot less.  Yes. Yeah. And so it's almost like you're growing that wealth of, like, that expense got less so you have more money type of mentality. Is that kind of where it will show if you're not, like, physically doing something? A little bit. Okay. It's more that there is a direct formula that there's a certain percentage that you'll keep from every paycheck- Mm-hmm  in order to grow your wealth without going, "I gotta cancel this. I gotta get this extra job." Yeah, yeah. You will physically have your savings and bank account grow month after month after month after month without changing any external, um, without, without changing that lifestyle. Yeah. Does that make sense?  Okay. Yeah, I think- There is a little bit that's more on the emotional end, which- Uh-huh ... inside this for- formula, of course you have physical action steps. You have emotional ingredients to make this perfect storm. So that's a little bit more on the emotional end where you're changing instead of hyper-fixating on, "I don't have enough.  I don't have enough. I don't get what I want." Mm-hmm. "I don't get what I want." You're changing it to, "I'm not gonna choose to fixate on this." So it's helping you not feel the squeeze and the tension and the worry on the emotional end. Okay. Does that make sense? It does. Mm-hmm. So although we can get into the formula later on, what I want, the, the precursor to that is bringing this to your attention today and going, are you in that state where you are frantically trying to change the external variables in your life to grow your wealth?  Getting an extra job, changing the olive oil purchase, trying to be crafty in, I don't know, like, having your kids pay for rent when you normally wouldn't decide that, but now you feel like you're pushed into a corner and you gotta start making some of those choices. I can tell you right now, all of the people here live and on rerun have an element of this in their field, which is why we're bringing it to your attention today, so that you can start going, "Oops," like, "I'm gravitating towards wanting to sell something.  Oops, I'm gravitating towards that scarcity, that tension, that comparison. I know that this is not going to benefit my electromagnetic field and my ability to grow wealth." So it's kind of like the prereq for getting the actual blueprint because if we don't have the prereq of how we're kind of doing this and where this is showing up in our life and how we keep replaying over and over and over the same scenarios and the solutions, if we don't know how we're doing that, we can't implement the blueprint, right?  So what I want you guys to walk away with from today is, A, knowing that it is possible, and I see it every single day, all day. You do not have to change a thing in your lifestyle and your environment in order to grow your wealth. You do not have to. I have walked hundreds of people through this as well as tinkered with my own finances for dec- a decade.  You do not have to change anything. In fact, it's quite the opposite. You do change something, you are actually going to negatively impact your energy field, which is something that nobody is talking about. And like I said, I would have paid so much money for somebody to literally hold my hand and walk me through that because I spiraled in that loop for so long.  So long. I would just replay to Tyler, "Oh, when the kids go..." You know, back 10 years ago, "When the kids go to school, then I'm gonna make this money. Oh, when I have these babysitter hours, then I'm gonna make this money. Oh, when..." Like, I just hyper-fixated on it, and it spinned my wheels further and further in the mud where I literally was like a spinning tire in the mud not making any traction anywhere.  I had to sit and dissect what is wealth? How do you get wealth? And then as soon as I started working with all these people and figuring it out, I was like, "Look at this girl that makes seven figures. She is so broke. She's just what everyone else is like. She is not any more savvy with money. She does not have any more money at the end of the day, end of the month.  She is in the same spot." Everybody's in the same spot. It doesn't matter what you make. It's a skill set, and I didn't quite understand that because I, again, kind of going back to this first wealth webinar, had a lot of these neural pathways that were like, "Work hard," right? That's what my dad told me. You just, like, work until your eyeballs fall out, and then you get what you want.  And you guys will see that you guys have these different neural pathways again, like money doesn't grow on trees. We don't really get what we want. We, um... You know, this person was, was, um, born into wealth. They got it passed down, right? Like, that's, that's not us in this lifetime. That's them. It's all the same.  It's all the same, and when you whittle, whittle, whittle, whittle, it goes back down to these core different ways we feel about ourselves, and we can always change that, right? We can always change that internal state. And then the second piece is just going, where am I physically saying these things? Like Maggie said, I physically have said that, like verbatim to my husband, verbatim to my friends, verbatim to my parents, verbatim to my kids.  I can tell that I am saying those things and I'm in that energy, right? It's going out like a detective this week and looking for those breadcrumbs of going, how do I really feel that way, right? 'Cause you're gonna walk away from this webinar and you're gonna go, "That was incredible. That was amazing. I have a fire under my butt."  And then you're gonna walk away and you're gonna go, "Do I really even have those stories?" Right? And you're gonna see throughout the week like, whew, had it here, had it here. Just saw my best friend. We went to this house on Sunday, Saturday, and she's one of our girlfriends from school, and she has a 16,000 square foot house, and it was like, whew.  It was like, oh my gosh, I've never been in such an estate as this. And it'll pop. It'll, like, rear its little head. My... Like, old Maggie would've had that 95 where I'd have been like, "Wow. Oh, ..." And I was able to be at, like, a 5% of, like, good for you. You know? But there was, like, a tinge of, like, wow, this is a big house.  You know? So you'll see it in the different avenues, and it's just looking at it, right? It's just being obv- an obv- an observer this week of how am I really sitting in this energy, right? And which one really applies to you? Are you more of the I should sell my stuff? Are you more of the comparison of other people?  Are you more of, like Sarah said, I, I can't... I need to pick and choose my choices or else, right? I can't really have it all. Mm-hmm. So that's what I want you guys to do this week to really get a head start and start continuing to put the pieces together to grow your wealth. Any thoughts or comments on that?  That one, this one just feels... I can see where I'm doing it. Mm-hmm. But it feels so, like... I, I feel so young that I learned it that it's such a hard neural path. Like, I see I'm just like my dad in how I think- Mm-hmm ... about money. It's like, if you don't have the money, you don't buy it kind of thing.  Absolutely. And just to, like, change that because it's a physical change from an emotional thought. Yes. You know? Like, your money physically will grow, but it's coming from this, like- Internal state ... yeah. My brain is, like, trying to connect it. Right, and it's just, it's the same framework- Uh-huh ... I think this might help, with a body symptom.  Okay. Your body will physically change- with your neural pathways, your... You know what I'm saying? Yeah. It's the same thing. It's the energetic coming down into the physical. Mm-hmm. For growing wealth, it's the same thing. You're having an energetic, emotional thought and neural pathway that's dictating the amount of money you can grow right now.  Yeah. Does that make sense? Yeah. It's just a hard one for me to be like, to let go of that, like- Yeah ... ooh, it's okay to buy this. It's okay to spend your money. Like, I, I have that very, like, I pick and choose where I put my money, you know? Right. Like- Yep ... and so that feels like s- it has a choke hold on me, to be honest.  I would try... Yeah, no, no, no. I get that, and I love that you're bringing it to the forefront. I would try, instead of... 'Cause I can already see where- ... your type A brain is going. Yeah. She's, like, off over here. Like, I need to buy the most expensive olive oil- ... for the rest of my life. There will never be a day that I buy that plastic olive oil again.  What I will say to you is it's not... You're pigeonholing yourself again, going- Yeah ... "Now I have to swing the other way." Yeah. What I would do in this situation is not make it black and white, but have two options, and go through the filter, since you are an intuitive. Mm-hmm. Go through the filter. If my goal right now is to grow wealth, let your intuition decide for you.  What to- Take your human decision- Yeah ... making out of it. Let her decide which one is the better choice. Ah. Ah, okay. Yes. You know? I can do that. Instead of, like, instead of, again, having your human going, "Now I'm gonna change directions. I'm gonna have this choke hold on this other pendulum swing"- Right ... it's going from that place of neutrality again, going- Mm-hmm  either or I'm okay with. Right. Right? Right. If my intuition tells me today that I don't really need this very high quality brand of olive oil, I'm gonna trust her, and if my intuition tells me I do need that very high quality brand of oil- olive oil, I will trust her. Ah. It's again- Yes ... going either way, she knows the 156 other steps that are gonna come from me consuming- Right, right  this brand of olive oil. Yeah. That I'm gonna put it in her plans, her hands, and take my human out of it, because I don't have the capacity to see those 100 and blah, blah, blah steps. Yes. So for me, the breadcrumb would be just that... I can almost feel the release when you said that, like, oh, I don't- Yeah  feel, like, such a choke hold on decisions of where I'm gonna put my money. Yes. Just the, in those thoughts about it. Okay. So do that, and just observe, like, ooh. Yeah. When, just like you did yesterday, your intuition- Mm-hmm ... was priming you and doing a lot of preview, going, "Ooh, I saw when I, he gave me that list"- Mm-hmm  "that he had that hesitation." Mm-hmm. Again, not shaming self, but being like, "Oh, that's interesting," right? Mm-hmm. I'm curious about- Was he picking up something from me? Mm-hmm. Was I... Because I'll tell you right now, Sarah, your thought processes are not negative. They're actually very aligned with how you grow wealth.  Mm-hmm. There's a little bit of shame and judgment after that. Yeah. "Ooh, I shouldn't think like that." You should, but it has to come from a more- Neutral ... neutral- Mm-hmm ... perspective instead of, again, yours is, "I have to choose it this way or else." Yeah, yeah. Right? Mm-hmm. So that's what I would focus on you, is just observing when those thoughts come up.  Mm-hmm. Just like Maggie's gonna go, "Ooh, I drove by that house again." And I'm, like, energetically, like, going like this to her. Like, "Hey, lady." You know? She's gonna go, "Ooh, I had that thought again. Interesting. Interesting. I seen that pop up again." Mm-hmm. Um, and Julie is gonna go, "Oh, I had another unexpected thing come up.  I can tell that my immediate emotion is I'm trapped, I'm suffocating, things just ke- keep getting tighter, this is out of my hands." You're just gonna notice this week where the pattern is. Mm-hmm. Where does it repeatedly show up for you? And you guys have a lot to work with with all the areas of life, right?  Mm-hmm. You can, you can see how it's showing up in what you tell your kids. "Oh, we can't afford that." Mm-hmm. Right? "We can't... We, we don't want, um, we can't go out to eat again this week. We don't have enough money for that. We don't have enough money for these types of snacks." Going, "Ooh, curious about that."  Mm-hmm. Right? Mm-hmm. Or in, um, your spiritual area of life. "I wanna buy this spiritual book. I can't. I can't..." Uh, is that a necessity or is that a want, right? And it's going, "Ugh, like, I'm limiting myself again." So it's gonna pop up. You, you have a lot of areas to work with, and don't overwhelm yourself. Pick one area and go, "I'm just gonna look at my family area of life, and I'm just gonna see kinda how I interact this week."  Mm-hmm. "And I'm just gonna kinda like sit back as an observer and see where I'm having these scarcity money thoughts." So real small homework assignment, but like you said, seems small but means everything. Yeah. Seems so micro, 'cause we're used to doing these big, glorious, fancy action steps, but it always comes back to how we view self.  Mm-hmm. And it is. It's, it's harder because, like you said, this has been a 40-year long neural pathway. Mm-hmm. 30-year long n- It's gonna be tough just to get yourself to observe it and be like, "Ooh, she, she was right. I did do that right there." Mm-hmm. "Ooh, I did gravitate over here." It is gonna be hard to look at yourself and go- Yeah, I see that connection, you know?  Mm-hmm. Yeah. So those are the breadcrumbs I want you to look for. And the more you focus on those breadcrumbs and going, "Ooh, I found one time today I did that." Mm-hmm. "Ooh, I found one time this week..." Even if it's just that amount of time that you set aside, it is going to work on extinguishing that- Yeah  and putting a spotlight on it so that you can begin the other frameworks to changing it.  So that's what I'm gonna have you guys... If you, if this is an area of life that you're trying to focus on, growing your wealth, feeling secure in the money you make, holding on to money, sustaining money, that is the, this is the pathway towards that. And having the realization that it is possible to grow your wealth without changing the external.  They kind of go hand-in-hand, right? Looking at ourself, and then also realizing that the ways we've been taught finances and wealth, they're not helpful. They're not going to, quite frankly, work for you guys, 'cause you guys are so high-frequency, so high-conscious, that they're not going to create sustainable wealth for you.  So having that like, ooh, something new is possible, right? And again, thinking of people too that you know that are wealthy that have money slip through their fingers just like that, right? You can create a big income and still be bad with money, right? Even if you don't have the internal lens like I do working with people, working with their spreadsheets, I'm sure you can pull up somebody in real life that you're like, "I know they make a lot, but like they have nothing to show for it."  Or, they just are always stressed, and they're always worried, and they're always in scarcity about their money even though they make seven times the time, seven times what I make, right? So having that possibility, and then looking at your own neural pathways are going to the, be the pre-req and the precursor to continuing to chip away at growing your own wealth.  Okay. Maggie, did I overwhelm you? She's like, "Always." You always. No. I just think that it's such a big part of my life right now. I'm like, oof. It's just a lot. Mm-hmm. It's a big worry of mine. I mean- Yeah ... and I've, I've honestly tried to push off, push off worrying. I didn't wanna worry about it during treatment.  I was just like, "It doesn't matter. I'll get it done. I'll figure it out because I have to." And so I honestly did not worry about- Yeah ... money last year. I was like, "Psh, who cares?" Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. 'Cause I couldn't care. Okay. But now that I'm, like, home and I'm just doing the upkeep and the maintenance and all of that, I'm like, "Oof, this is a lot."  And your higher self is like, "Go to the webinar, Maggie. Come to the-" Yes ... "webinar." Go watch and learn and l- and figure it out. Yeah. Yeah. Well, and try not to let your brain... You're somebody, too, that, like, zooms out and se- tries to see the 15 other steps beyond this- Yeah ... because you feel like that's the gold, right?  Yeah. But remembering and, and not almost, almost telling yourself just what you just did. You've already practiced this. We will worry about that. Worry about it later. We will master that. We will take- Yeah ... that head on when it's the right time. Those 15 steps after this is not the right time right now. I am just worried about mastering this awareness.  Okay. Because like we talked about last week- Yeah ... if we don't have this awareness, if we don't have this first brick on our foundation of our house, we can't keep sp- we can't keep climbing up, right? Right. And we can't keep focusing on the big shiny things when we don't even have one of the bricks in.  One layer. Yeah. One layer. And that is definitely hard for me to do. Yeah. But I will, I will work on it. But every time, every time you see yourself, um, branching out, just be like a little, um, shepherd and be like, "Come back." Be like, "Hey." "Come back. We will focus on that." "Come here. Come to the light." "Come, come back."  "Come to the light." Yeah, and just, like, physically stop yourself. Be like- Okay ... "Not going there yet. Thank you. Again, thank you for trying to figure it all out. Thanks for having a plan. We're focused- Yeah ... right here for right now, and that's all I need to focus on." Okay. And putting that trust again in higher self, in me, and Source that we will unravel the rest of the bricks as you tackle the first one.  Okay. Yeah. Um, yeah. It'll be really, really, really helpful. Really helpful. And again, these skillsets that we're learning are things you guys will have for the rest of your life, right? Learning how to grow wealth from nothing a- or from what you currently have, like I said, I would've paid so much money to understand this because it is something that you...  Let's say you go to have a successful business. I think of my dad who went bankrupt in his businesses, I think, two times now. And- He doesn't have that innate knowing that no matter what, he can grow wealth. He has the scarcity, right? You think of that skill set of no matter where I'm at, no matter what situation I'm in, no matter what my life looks like, how train wrecked it is, how much it blows up in flames, no one can take this away from me.  I will literally be able to grow wealth and have income no matter what. That is so valuable. To have that in your field creates risks, creates investments, creates growing your wealth even more because you're taking chances, 'cause you're not scared that you're incapable of getting to that point. So it's such a skill set that, again, once you master, once you have a hold of, you will have it forever.  You will have it forever, and it will do so much good in your field in a lot of different ways. So something that if this is an area you're focused on, if this is an area you're worried about, that is a inkling from higher self of, like, there's a better way to do this, right? We talked about that a couple weeks back.  When we have this worry pop up, it's usually higher self going, "Let's get this taken care... Let's actually start focusing on this. Let's actually tackle this even though we're scared, even though we're worried, even though we're nervous. This is the time." Um, she's always so many steps ahead of you in what you're kind of creating and the energy behind it and all of that, so.  Okay. We are going to stop there. We'll have this up on school, and then we'll have a Q&A. Can't remember if it's Thursday or Friday, but it's at the end of... Maggie, do you know? Is it Friday? It's Friday. It's Fri- it's Friday. Yeah, you moved it to Friday. Yeah. Moved it to Friday. There, I got it. Yes. Um, we'll have the Q&A Friday, so submit your questions or let this kind of marinate and think through, and when you guys have curiosities like, "Well, what about this situation?  What about this? What about this little thing I'm in here?" We'll kind of dive into those Friday morning after you guys have heard the replay, kind of let it sink in, and, um, that'll be really helpful for everybody. Okay? All right. And we also have a good podcast coming up on all of this type of stuff, too, on Thursday, so.  All right. Thank you guys for your time. Email in if you guys have questions, and we will see you guys Friday, if not sooner for some of you. Okay? All right. Much love. Thank you. Have a wonderful day. You're so welcome. Bye, guys.