How to Cope with Others Not Understanding Your Spiritual Interests

So today we're gonna be talking about how to cope with our friends and family, people we love dearly, who just do not understand our gifts, do not understand our interests, level, in some of this spiritual stuff. Uh, I always speak from experience. You guys know that.  You guys... We talked about, I think, this last time that you guys can hear my heart when I say that I've been through this, when I say that I've been through the wringer with people not understanding what I'm doing. And, um, even the people that I am the closest to, even my husband Tyler, who is so... Like, I would honestly say one of his biggest strengths in loving me is he has always accepted me for who I am, and he's allowed me to morph and change and evolve all the time.  And he is very, very supportive of every single version of myself, and that has been over the last 15 years. So he has seen me radically change over the last 15 years. Um, and sometimes we giggle about it 'cause it's like I w- he would never have guessed that I would've went down this path. Like, it was just never in the cards.  It wasn't anything of what I was like personality-wise early on in our relationship. So all that being said, even though it's one of his biggest strengths, he's also been my inside out voice a lot, being like... I, I remember him clear as day being like, "Why would you ever stop doing your nutrition business?"  Like, he didn't get it. He didn't understand it, right? When I went from whole foods, non-toxic living, and built this entire platform and app and all, all my people, and I w- was feeling very unaligned with it, and I was like, "I don't think this is what I'm supposed to be doing anymore." And he was like, "What?"  You know, he was like, "I don't understand you. You just spent three years, four years, five years building this." Um, I don't think... You know, he even, like, flat out said, like, "I don't think this is a good financial move for you. I don't think this is..." Um, you know, he butt up- butt against with what I was saying about myself, and, uh, made me question if I was doing the right thing.  I also have another- little quote he said, um, where early, early, early on, years and years ago, where I was like, I j- w- like, when I was thinking about moving from nutrition, I was like, "I just want to be, like, a talk therapist, and I don't know how I'm gonna do that, 'cause I don't wanna go to school and I don't wanna be a counselor.  But I wanna help people with their emotions." And I remember he kinda, like, laughed, and he wasn't trying to be rude, but he was like, "Good luck . Like, I don't know what you're trying to do. I don't know what you're trying to say. Like, how are you ever gonna build a business where you're literally helping people with their emotions when you don't have a degree?  You h- you don't have all these credentials to support this and back this up." So, and this is coming from a place of love, and like I said, he is so supportive of all my wildest dreams, but even the utmost supportive partner that loves you unconditionally and allows you to morph and evolve will be your inside-out voice.  They will share... And if you don't know what an inside-out voice is, we're gonna get into that today. But they will share the doubts and questions that you are sharing inside your own heart, and they will mirror it back to you, okay? And it can feel really challenging. And I think even as a society, we have grown to, we have grown to kinda get into this mindset of, like, toxic people, right?  And you see all these quotes and people that are like, "Cut all the toxic people out of your life, and if they're not serving you, like, get them out, and they're such a drain, get them out." You know, all of that stuff surrounding, um, that even I have, like, fallen into years and years prior. I had one specific cousin who was really, really close to me, and I, I cut her out and, and grossly went away from her because I felt like she was not serving me.  I kinda had that, like, "She's toxic," and I, and I don't wanna be around that energy. But what you will come to find is everybody is a mirror to your internal self, and we're gonna get into that today, and it can be very challenging to have some of these beliefs. Do you guys feel this in society? Do you guys know what I'm talking about, where it's like this positiv- or this, not positivity, this toxicity between relationships and how to protect yourself and cut them out, and if they are not, um, prioritizing you and kinda taking care of you, then you should just X them out of your life?  And it, we're gonna get into that today, because- Really, truly, if somebody is triggering you and somebody is making you feel a certain way, like they're draining you, it really is a reflection back on you and you not having the proper boundaries up. So taking this radical responsibility of what are they teaching me?  What are they showing me? Because all in all, we should be getting to this place of unconditional love. We should be getting to this place of, um, not feeling triggered. And when we're in complete neutrality, then we should be making decisions about who we want to spend time with, okay? This is the same for marriage advice.  If we are feeling like we are... or if I'm helping a client with marriage and they're like, "I'm just not, I'm not seeing eye to eye with him. I'm frustrated. There's arguments." Those are all refrec- reflections, what we call reflections. Those are all triggers. And really what I take clients through is getting to a place of complete neutrality where your marriage is the best that it's ever been and you still choose to walk away.  You still choose that that person is not right for you. But until you're in this neutrality space, being completely clear-headed and taking out the reflections, it really is creating decisions based off of high emotions, is what it is. Does anyone have any questions about that so far? Okay. So, wow, Chelsea says some fire emojis.  Yeah, it's, it's the most balanced source-like perspective and viewpoint on relationships, and it's easier. It's the easy route to just cut them out, right? And be like, "This is, this is making me look a little bit too hard in, okay? This is, uh, making me... Having to do a little bit too much internal work, and it would be a lot better if I could just take you out of my life."  But the biggest thing you will come to find out is that those reflections don't dissolve, right? How many of us have heard of and, and know of marriages that have ended because of X, Y, Z, and the next relationship that comes in mirrors that exact pattern, right? They're still retr- um, recruiting in similar patterns.  I think of that, um, within a lot of family members that I know of, when you kind of l- like ex that friend out or you ex that behavior, somebody will come in and play that same part, 'cause you never learned that lesson. You can never outrun your reflections. They will always come and find you, because the life lesson has not been learned yet.  So from a very, very source-like perspective, that's what we're going to get into. But I also understand from a very human perspective how challenging this can be. Like I said, I've dealt with, um, Tyler not, not... Like, you know, being my inside-out voice and sharing the different parts that I wasn't understanding about energy work or intuition or some of the spiritual laws.  I had, from a very young age, been able to communicate with spirits and ghosts. And I remember very, very specifically when I was young being like, "Mom, I just, um, I just talked to Grandpa," or, "I just did this." And all of them would be like, "No, you didn't." And like, "You're crazy. You're making it up." Or I remember being like, "I can't sleep.  There's people in the room with them, room with me right now. I can feel them all around me." And my parents being like, "No, that's not true." You know, and telling me that, um, my reality wasn't truth. And these are all different versions of inside-out voices, where people are not believing you, people are not supporting you, people are not seeing your vision, seeing what you're going through.  And from a very ego and humanistic standpoint, it can feel very confusing. It can make us sway and make us doubt ourselves and go, "Well, is this real? Like, am I really not feeling something?" It make you, can make you feel crazy. It can make you feel all sorts of negative feelings, and, um, really pushes that agenda of not being your true core authentic self as well.  So from a human perspective, I get it. We're gonna get into some different tools and ways that you guys can combat this, um, as you learn this lesson. And this is going to be ever-evolving, okay? There's not going to be... We should never be trying to get to this point, and we talk about this for the ladies that are in the emotions program.  We talk about this, where we shouldn't be trying to never have another issue again, right? Like I- Don't want you guys to go in and be like, "I hope that I never have another relationship issue where somebody doesn't support you." I want you guys to reframe that and go, "Thank God that person was telling me this piece about myself I wasn't understanding.  Thank God this person was giving me this gift of communication so that I get to know myself a little bit more, and I get to see where I'm a little bit off balance." And really truly, when we... 'Cause, 'cause what happens is when we get into that space of, "I hope that I never have a disagreement again. I hope that my partner always supports me.  I hope blah, blah, blah, blah, blah," it causes fear, it causes letdown, and more than that, it causes this shame within your body that you're not doing it right, right? You have all the tools, all the knowledge, and somehow you're still in it. That's what we kind of start telling ourselves, like, "I, I've already invested.  I've already learned all this. Why am I still going through..." You're life lessons. And I'm just here to tell you, you're always gonna go through life lessons. You're always going to go through obstacles. You... What, what happens on a very energetic and physical level is, um, my dad used to, I mean, say this to me all the time with business, "New level, new devil," right?  You hit another income rank, you're going to have your next slew of issues, your next slew of obstacles. Um, when you reach a new level, new things get presented to you about the same issue, right? So I don't want you guys to feel like there's ever an end. There's not an end. It's just, um, new interpretations of things that you've been struggling with.  Ways to advance yourself. Does that make sense to everybody? So I can tell that sometimes we get into that mind trap of, "I should know this. I should be beyond this." You know? And I want you guys to really focus on reframing that, 'cause it just, it causes more rips and tears in your electromagnetic field.  So when we get into the spiritual and energetic law of reflections, okay? Um, you may have heard me share about this. People that are watching on replay, you met or may never have heard about reflections before. And this is this principle that I kind of opened up with here today, that is like whatever we are holding inside to ourselves, other people will mirror that to us in whatever capacity.  So, uh, Charles, I loved your question that you asked, what was it, this weekend? Are there any positive reflections? You will only ever get a reflection if you are imbalanced. So the minute you start to go off your soul purpose, the minute you start to become a villain in your own story, other people are then going to take and mirror that to you And the reason that is, is because you have already played that scene of villain inside your head hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of times, and what the universe does is it puts it back on somebody else so you see them as a villain, you see them as doing something wrong, and you start cheerleading for yourself.  Does that make sense? So if I were to be having a reflection, and let's say that my reflection was, um... Let me think of one real quick. Let's say my reflection was this, um, this friend doesn't... Let's say that it's, that it's my mom, and I'm like, "She doesn't ever support me. She doesn't ever ask about my business.  Um, I'm so frustrated that she doesn't tune into what I find is so joyful in my life and that I'm so excited about." Let's say that I'm, like, getting cranky about that. And, um, then I see her as the villain, right? My reflection is that she's mirroring back something internally. And then inside my own heart, I am going, "Well, am I being really supportive of myself?  Am I being, um, excited for myself?" And then I start going, "Yeah, I am being excited for myself. What? I did this, I did this, I did this," and you start pushing up your own cheerleading abilities because that person was mirroring it back to you. Do you guys see how that kind of starts to take in? So at first you were being really hard on yourself and you didn't know it.  She mirrors it back to you. You kind of turn that just humanistically and go, "Why is she doing that? Oh my gosh." And then you start cheerleading and amping up yourself, and with that, the reflection starts to resolve. Does everybody get, understand how that happens? So it's this really, really beautiful, beautiful system that we have when we can learn to view it in the right way.  So really truly the only way that you start to have reflections is if you're being a villain to yourself. If you are... You're kind of like your happiness meter and your cheerleading meter and how balanced you feel, the minute you start to go off is when you start to create reflections. The minute you get into heavy emotions is when you start to create reflections.  So really, really important. Nobody on the outside can ever do anything to us that we have not already done to ourself a couple hundreds of times. All right? So, um, when you guys are dealing with- this excitement that you guys have towards the universal laws, towards intuition, towards energy work, towards self-healing, and you go off in this bubbly excitement of like, holy crap, like I cannot believe this exists.  I'm like, it's spewing out of me. When you go off to do that and you're met with resistance, does anyone want to like unmute themselves or write in the chat? What is that saying about the person that is reading our energy?  If we are excited and I am like, oh my gosh, I just learned this. You go to share with a friend and they are questioning you, resistance toward the information. What does that say about me?  You have doubt underneath all that excitement. You have doubt underneath all that excitement. Absolutely. So they really, when you intuitively look in, if you have highly trained intuition, which some of these girls live here do, you can see when you clock how resistant they really are to the information, you'll see it's like zero.  They really don't give a rip about what you're saying. They really have no personal preference to it. They are just energetically reading your broadcast. That's all it is. They really don't care what you're saying and don't have a solid opinion on it, but they are just reading your broadcast. That's all it is.  So girls that have intuition, next time you start to be met with some of that resistance, I want you to go into it and clock and go, are they really resistant toward the information? And you're going to see that the numbers are so low. Do they really care about the information? You're going to see that their numbers are so, so low.  It's really, really interesting. And what that is with the law of reflection is it's our inside out voice. That's what we call it, is when somebody else is from the outside is being the voice that we have internally. And you'll see that your kids take on this role. You might even have one kid in particular who is always like giving it to you, right?  Mine is my son. He is always like just my biggest voice. And you'll see that the people kind of beep up too. So it might be your kid for a little bit, then it might be your partner, then it might go into somebody that you are friends with. It's going to kind of move around, but you will always have an inside out voice that is reflecting what you are thinking internally.  Does anyone have any question about who their inside-out voice is right now? Do you guys want me to intuit who that is for you? Catha comes back to the screen and she's like, "Yes, yes!" Um, that is so funny. Her head just, like, peers from the red darkness, and she's like, "Don't forget about me." Um, okay. So Catha, husband.  Husband is it, like, 80% of the time. Mom is often it, though. Mom, is she kinda that person that- Yes, we got very close, but she's very spiritual, too. So actually, also with my husband, I feel very supported. Yes. Does he... But do you sh- do you sh- feel like you share a lot of what you're learning with him to, like, in depth-ly?  No, not so much- Yeah ... because maybe he's not so interested. Yeah. Or- So I think if you really went and you were like, um- Yeah ... "I learned this today. I learned this. I learned this," you might see that he would present you those- Yeah ... resistance and doubts and things that you're still processing and working through.  Yeah. I shared the numbers you gave me, uh, with the business call, like the money numbers, and he was like, "Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha." See? So that was definitely my inside-out voice. And what was your reaction, Catha, when I told you those numbers? I think it was pretty much the same, where you're like- Yeah, probably ... "I can't wait to see that happen, sis."  Like... Yeah. So, um, yeah, so funny. So yeah, husband is, like... I think if you used it more... Okay, good. Mm-hmm. I didn't want to... Um, I, I think if you used it more, and you were to go in depth with him- Mm-hmm ... he would mirror that back to you a little bit more. I love bug. Yes. Um, Ashley- Thank you. You're so welcome.  Ashley, yours is...  Um, yours is kinda split as well.  Um, husband does as well for you, and in-laws is also another reflective piece for you. Does that make sense?  Um, I don't know. You don't know. Um, it feels like it kinda tosses and turns between, um, your husband does, yes, I feel like is resistant at times. And yeah, it feels like your in-laws as well, which you have... You've shared a lot with your, was it your sister-in-law? Yeah, my sister-in-law and my in-laws are both- They've really, this year since, I feel like since I started doing the programs, they've really challenged me They've stepped up and they're like, "Let me help you, sister bear."  Yeah And you're driving me nuts. Our human self gets very frustrated. Yeah, so I'd say those are your two biggest mirrors, that they really kind of take you off course and make you doubt and question yourself. Like, am I doing the right thing? Am I on the right path? Like, they make you feel less than, but also, like, are you doing the right thing?  Yeah. So those would be your two... And like I said, it's gonna flip-flop between husband and them, so keep an eye on both of them. Okay. Charles, Nick is for sure one.  Is it father and mother-in-law? It feels like and then your father and mother-in-law is... I'm not sure what she said. Nick. Mom I only got, like, 65% of the time, Charles. Um- Did you say my in-laws? Mm-hmm. The parents. I didn't think about my in-laws. Yeah, they're a big trigger. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Welcome They're big mirrors for you.  Um, again, they cause that confusion- I know ... and doubt. Mama. Mama. Um, to you being like... And they just really rev you up. Quiet. They rev your energy up where you're like, "That didn't need to be said." Like, you're just, like, a little frustrated. Um, so those are gonna be your two biggest mirrors. Sarah, um...  Sarah, I'm not sure if you're live here. Uh, ex-husband. Oh, okay. Do you feel like he- Yeah ... hits you with resistance? Okay. Um, yeah, he seems like a big mirror for you. And then in-laws. Nin-laws not really. Um, daughter. Yeah. Which makes sense based on our previous past webinars. Yeah. Son is only at, like, 80%, so he doesn't seem as big of a mirror to you.  Okay. What about my current husband? Current husband, 91, so he'll step in at times. Yeah. Um, but it seems like more of your triggers come from ex-husband. Yeah. Like, he's still playing the part. Um, but also this was just coming to me too, Sarah, for, um, my intuition, thinking of cutting the cord between you and your ex-husband as well.  You have a cord together- Yep ... uh, that's causing still the emotions to wave between the two of you. Okay. So we can maybe, if you wanna email in, we can talk about- Um, next steps for that. But that might be an idea to stop taking on his energy, him stop taking on yours. You kind of have this exchange still happening.  We do. That would definitely help with the mirror situation. Okay. Yeah. Um, any other questions on that? Nope. Okay. Yep. Um, okay. And then Maggie, 'cause I know you're listening from afar, but you're sleeping right now. Um, Maggie, yours is husband for sure, cur- your husband. Um, and then feels like a- there's a colleague too, Maggie, that is, uh, very triggering to you.  Um, almost like has a element of argumentativeness to themselves, and you find it very irritating. So I would take a look into that colleague too, and when you're listening and watching the replay, just email in and we can kind of nail down who that person is. Um, so these are gonna be kind of your biggest inside-out voices, okay?  So what do we do? We know that we have these inside-out voices. We have a couple options now to deal with the reflective component. What do you guys think we could use as solutions if we now understand this law, and we go, "Okay, everything that's happening in my reality is a mirror towards what's happening in my internal reality.  I know that this person that is meeting me with resistance..." If you have intuition, like I said, you can clock it and go, "Okay, they don't really care about it," right? Um, Tyler really didn't care about my nutrition business. He was just reading my energy. What can you guys... What are some of the solutions you guys can use now with this information moving forward?  Chelsea said, "I never connected this, but my father-in-law drives me crazy 'cause he's so unserious and too goofy. And my mother-in-law is so critical." My two pain points. I was just gonna say that before I read that. I was like, well. I love you. Yeah. They're, they're mirroring that, um, that internal balance.  Oh, that's so funny. So you will... guys will start to see this, and what I want you guys to do, you guys have a couple of options, okay? One is I would try to reframe... refrain, not reframe. Refrain from sharing the excitement until you are rooted to it. Okay? We've talked about this a little bit before, but when you have a goal, if you share it, you start to change the energy of it.  Do you guys know why? Let's say I have a big income goal, and I'm like, "I wanna hit X amount in 2026." If I go and blab my mouth, and I'm like, "Dad, guess what my income goal is? Tyler, what's my income goal? Guess what, guess what, guess what," what starts to happen with the income goal? The energy changes. How?  You start to invite in their thoughts, right? You start to go, "Hey, Dad, I have this income goal." And Dad's like, "Well, that feels a little far from where you're currently at. Are you sure that you have everything set up?" You start to bring in the criticism, right? If you haven't hit the goal yet and formulated the plan, and got it very, got very rooted to the plan of how you were gonna create that income goal, how you were gonna make it happen, um, all the s- the surrounding details around it, and then you go to share it, you're inviting in that inside-out voice, right?  That's how you're changing the energy. You're inviting in the criticism. You're inviting in the judgment. You're inviting in their ideas that you don't necessarily need, but now are messing with your current ideas of what you thought you needed to go get it done. Does that make sense? So you're changing the energy of it by inviting in everybody else's energy, thoughts, opinions, et cetera.  So my biggest piece of advice would be either, A, you can choose to not share the excitement until you are 100% rooted to it. So those of you with intuition, you can clock how rooted you are to intuition. You can clock how rooted you are to energy work. You can clock how rooted you are to a topic that you're going to share about in your next podcast.  You wanna clock it before you go out and share it. If you are listening and you do not have a highly trained intuition, we have a lot of master intuitives that are here and that are inside of our community over on that school platform. If you post and you want to pose a question, we have a lot of people that can give you that answer.  So that is one way that you guys can combat this, okay? You can keep your personal interests and excitement close-knit to your body until you feel that you are really solid in it, okay? When... The other reason you kinda wanna do that is because there is something to The energy as well, you have a certain amount of people, this is more business mindset, but some of you here are, have, are starting businesses within this.  If I were to learn something new, and I were to go and blab to Tyler about it, and I would be like, the intricate details, and I'm talking to him for like an hour about it, and I'm like really sharing all about it, I had a certain amount of people that were going to learn that information from me, a certain amount of hours of people learning from that, a certain amount of people that were gonna pay me for that information, and now Tyler just took a spot of that.  Does that make sense? So he is going to be my student for free. Would I rather have a paid client? Perhaps. Would I rather have that in a webinar? Perhaps. But because I kind of sliced off some of that pie and gave it to Tyler, when Tyler maybe didn't necessarily want it, care about it, or know about it, he just got that type of content for free.  So something to think about as well if you guys are starting your business. This is another great pointer for those of you that are doi- that are intuitives, and you are wanting paid clients for intuition. If you are using all your intuitive skill sets and doing free reads for people, and it's not in fair exchange, you will not be having paid clients come in because you're already using up that intuitive read for free.  Does that make sense? I can see Ashley's brain literally exploding. She's like, "Oh, crap. I've got to keep my mouth shut," she says. So something to think about, okay? Um, you have a certain amount that you are in alignment for right now. When we are kind of giving this stuff out for free, it is changing that alignment.  Really, really, really interesting stuff to think about. So we have one thing where we, we have one option. We can keep it close-knit to ourselves, right? We can... Until we fully understand it, we feel connected to it, we feel rooted in it, we're not gonna go out and explain it to other people, okay? And, oh, I just had a thought and I lost it with that.  Oh, um, that rootedness, it's also very important to understand that that rootedness is not going to come from just listening to Maggie talk, right? As humans, we need to feel and experience- Being rooted in it. You need to feel and experience intuition working for you. You need to feel and experience intuitive reads being accurate for you.  You need to feel and experience how balancing out your emotions bring your trigger down. If you're just consuming me talking or a podcast, feeling excited and enlightened about it, and then gonna go and share that information, you're probably not that rooted to it. You need to firsthand in life have those experiences.  Does that make sense? In order to build that believability within your body. So another really good point. So we've got this first option. We can kind of keep it close to our heart. We have this second option where we can be in awareness and go, "Okay, I just shared this. I'm meeting... They are meeting with me with resistance," and thank them energetically and be like, "Thank you so much for showing me where I am not certain, where I am not rooted.  I'm gonna go in and fix that," right? Like, "What you just told me word for word is something that I am not rooted to, so I'm gonna go work on, um, building that believability." So you can have that encounter, and then go do the internal work around it. The last option that you can do, and you guys can pick and choose which one feels the safest for you depending on your skill level as well, the last option is you can, um, actually clock their consciousness levels as well.  If you go, "I, I do feel rooted to it. I still feel like they don't understand it," if you have precise intuition and you've trained with us, you can actually clock their consciousness level to see if it's even something you should be bringing up in the first place. 'Cause as we've talked about before, and actually we have an entire podcast episode coming out on this...  What's today? Wednesday. Tomorrow. Um, people's consciousness level is going to dictate whether they relate to what you're saying and whether they're going to understand the spiritual stuff. If they are a younger soul, they honestly will not be able to meet you in the depth that you are and be excited and understand all of this stuff you're learning right now, because their soul just was not meant to learn it in this lifetime.  They are off learning different things, and they will not comprehend what you're saying. Does that make sense? So for example, I talk about this on the podcast tomorrow, but my mom is a little bit more of a younger soul. My dad is very much an old soul. And so my dad really understands what I do for work and is very interested in it.  And even if he doesn't, um- really get what I'm saying. He's always up for listening to me yap about what I'm doing, and he understands it, and he would never... He, he's just somebody with a very open mind. He's an older soul. He connects with what I'm saying. He wouldn't ever be met with resistance. My mom, on the other hand, thinks that what I do is crazy.  Okay? She's a younger soul. She can't literally wrap her head around what I am saying to her. And so part of this is understanding, hey, Mom is not going to fill all these pieces for me. She is not going to ask me about business, but I have all these other people in my life that are interested in what I do about business, and more than that, I'm really interested in what I do about business, and I don't need their validation.  Okay? So it's also understanding some people can just not physically go there, and if you have a trained intuition, you can go in and clock, is their consciousness able to accept this information? That is another piece to the puzzle. So when I am out at a park, let's say... And by the way, people in Utah just love chatting as moms.  Like, we didn't do this in Wisconsin, but every single mom I meet in Utah at a park is like, "What's your name and number?" Like, "Let's get together." That did not happen in Wisconsin. You did not exchange numbers. I have so many people that are like, "Beth, Utah," and, "Sarah, Utah," like, all these rando names that I don't know who they are because we are always changing, exchanging numbers at the park.  Anyways, when you go to introduce yourself, as an intuitive, I am clocking their consciousness and going, "Okay, Beth from Utah, she is at this consciousness. She's not going to understand if I go really deep into what I do, so I'm just sharing that I do energy work." Does that make sense? I might meet somebody else, Liz, let's say.  Beth and Liz, the same name. I might meet someone else, and I may clock her consciousness and go, "Ooh," like, "she's gonna really resonate with what I'm saying. I'm going to go all the way with her. She's gonna get it. We're gonna click. It's gonna be great." So that is another piece that you guys can do to kind of buffer and go, where is this person at?  So three different solutions. Do you guys have any questions on this so far? I got a question, Maggie. Yes. Um, for me, it's difficult because I'm sharing everything, or, like, not everything, but a lot now on Instagram- Yeah ... as you said, like, so people can find me, and there are many colleagues and friends, like close friends, who are, um, obviously, like, watching everything, and then they're of course asking.  Yes. And that's sometimes difficult because they are seeing what I'm sharing, and then they're asking, and then it's difficult to l- like, not go that deep or, like- Go that deep. Yeah. So are they meeting you with resistance, where you are feeling like- They're doubting me, or is it- Some ... some are- Yeah, some are meeting with resistance, but some are just curious.  Yeah Just curious. So what I would do is I'd kind of split that into two boats, and I'd be like, "Curious friends, um, let me clock their consciousness and- Mm-hmm ... see if they're open to this information." Okay? Mm-hmm. Even people here in Utah, like, they're... I don't know if you guys know this, but the... it's heavily Mormon here, and they've got very, very, very strict religions.  One of my best, best, best friends here in Utah that we've met that is real- our kids are best friends, she is very, very strict Mormon. And slowly over the last couple years, um, I have... Not years, year. It's been a full year, yeah. Um, I have been able to ma- like, clock her soul, and she's actually been, like, an intuitive and a healer in past lifetimes.  So over these last, whatever, 15 months, I've divulged a little and little to the point where she's like, "Teach me intuition. Teach it to me. I know I want... I know I should be doing this." And she's always messaging me, so interested, so excited. Maybe 15 months ago would've been like she would be so, like, not of candidate to talk about this stuff because of how boisterous she is within her religion, but she's actually ended up being the most interested, the most curious.  So I've been able to clock her soul and be like, she actually... I have a soul contract with her to actually help her remember. Um, so you'll see that a lot in the people that you are... you and Curious Catha, going in and being like, "Are they meant to learn from me?" Even the people you are like, "My God, they'd never be into this.  This is crazy", you'll find that actually you are serving a huge purpose in awakening them. Okay, perfect. So, like, just seeing how much I share with them when they're asking, right? Like- Yeah. So it's going to be asking the intuitive question of, um, let's create some filters for you right now. Is this pers- does this person have a soul contract to learn from me, yes or no?  Feels like 86% of these people that are Curious Catha do have a soul contract to learn from you. It w- what it is is it's you, uh, you're uncomfortable sharing this side of you. So you feel very weird that people in real life are watching you do this, and it's just a reflection for you. Um, but she's like, "Yeah, tell me something I don't know."  Um, so I would work on that reflection piece. But 86% of them, they are actually supposed to learn from you, and might even turn into paying clients later on. The people that are doubting you and causing resistance, that's also a reflection. So I would take those pieces and go in and solve that reflection For the people that are doubting you.  But you have a little bit of a different situation because you can't necessarily filter and monitor who's showing up on your feed to watch you with your business. So you have to work extra hard with putting yourself out there that you are rooted with what you're saying. And I would even almost every single post or story you share, do a quick clock of how rooted am I to this and then post it.  You want to make sure you're at 100% before you're sharing stuff. Because th- so this is like so interesting on social media. People that have these very big accounts, I don't care how big you are, if you have constant people commenting under your posts, um, bringing in negativity and also judging you and bringing in these like, um, argumentative comments, you have all these huge influencers that are posting it then to their stories and like defending themselves.  It's really funny to watch once you know this because you're like, it's just you. It's just you having this. They're all, um, reading your script broadcast. And so if you were to solve this large influencer, you wouldn't have literally anybody batting what you're saying. Like our account, we have, um, we, like I can think of maybe one comment ever that has been combative to me.  I went in and I was like, "Ooh, like I did feel this way. Thank you. I did feel this way." But you, you can have an Instagram and a social media platform where people are not arguing with you at all because you are rooted. And how you get to that point is before you speak, ask yourself, "Am I 100% rooted to this information?  Do I have 100% belief, memories to back it up, experiences to back it up? Is this from my heart?" And this is kind of getting off on a little bit of a tangent, but, um, this is the disconnect too with people using AI, is it's not their heart. It's not their thoughts. It's not like ChatGPT and stuff. People can run their mouth all they want about how, um, artificial intelligence is the next blah, blah, blah, and everybody's job's being taken away.  We can energetically feel when something is not real. You know what I mean? When it's not coming from the person's heart, when it's not, um, being spoken from their experience, we can tangibly feel that. We are like, "This feels very au- inauthentic. This feels dry. This feels like we just are not gonna have a personal connection to it."  Um, so everybody that's also trying to like write their captions and posts and stuff, stuff from ChatGPT, they're also going to have that pushback because it's not really them writing it. So ... Okay, how do you decide or limit the information you're sharing openly versus paid client? Okay, let me answer these in s- chunks.  How do you decide or limit the information you share openly? Do you mean share openly, like, on for business, Ash? Yeah, if you were, like, to share information with a friend or family member or whatever, how do you go about sharing that information if it's not within fair exchange? So what kind of information?  Just, like, the laws of the universe? Yeah. So that's, that's just, like, common, or not common knowledge, but I guess that is teaching a little bit, but they could go off and find that information themselves. What, what would be more of fair exchange would be, like, the intuitive reads, and really getting into, like, the thick of how it works.  The minute you start giving advice, right, and you start going, "Well, the reason you have this," instead of, "The reason you're attracting in this, and blah blah blah blah blah blah," and you start working your intuition and stuff, that's when you'll get cut from fair exchange. Okay. And so if you were giving information and somebody was interested, how do you transition from sharing information to taking on a paid client?  So I would say, um, and this is gonna happen to you guys all the time, uh, you will find that once people connect to you and go, "Oh my gosh, she has such good advice," she can... They, they will be able to intuitively feel the connection between you and their heart and their soul, you know, and be like, "She is so balanced.  She always has great advice. She's high frequency." You will see people will start to flock to you. Like, I have a lot of people here in Utah that I would say were, are acquaintances or even good friends that will just voice note me five to six minute long audios every single week just telling me about their life.  You know what I mean? They're asking for solutions. They're asking for advice. What I like to do is I like to go, "You know, in order for me to give my very best advice, I really have to be in my office. I really have to, like, not have all of our kids around. I have to be in the zone in order... I don- I would never wanna mess up that energy for you for the advice, so this really has to be something that I do in my work zone."  Okay. Does that make sense? Yeah. Yeah. Um, that seems to work really well to kinda deter people, um, a- from kinda crossing that fair exchange line. Okay. Yeah. Okay, does that clear up the confusion, Ash? Okay. Um, so we have a couple options of here on how to deal with people not- Understanding you, not supporting you, and being met with that resistance.  Like I said, it's gonna take a little bit of time if this is a new concept for you to really digest this and go, "This is something I'm doing to myself. I gotta go in and figure out how I'm doing this to myself. I gotta go in and clear it." Or if you are newer to this concept, what I would do is I'd keep that energy close to you until you feel rooted enough to share it, would be my biggest recommendation.  And like I said, going into our school community and going, "Hey, will somebody clock me on this? I was, um, about to share this." The other thing that I want to also just drop in here that's coming to me right now is that not everyone is meant to learn from you. I was just, um, thinking of this the other day as I was trying to instill something in my son and daughter, and I was clocking, and I was like, "Oh," like, they are not supposed to hear this from me, and I was evil- even able to trace it out of which teacher was really gonna instill and bring this home to them.  But remembering that you're not always the person that needs to deliver this content to this person. Sometimes there's different people that are going to come in that your son or daughter or your spouse even, or, um, the people you're trying to share this with are going to connect with more than you.  Okay? So that's another intuitive question that you can ask, "Is this person meant to learn this from me?" It's very humbling when the answer is no. No. Um, so something else to keep in mind. Okay, let's see. Um, we talked about that. We talked about the formula. Um, let me get into some questions here because we are running at the hour mark.  Um, Chelsea, "I block anyone I know and don't want them to watch." Chelsea Zukowski. Is that how you say your last name? I don't know. But it feels like the same as Monsters, Inc., so that's what I say it in my brain every time that I read your emails, so God bless me if that's not how you pronounce it. Let me just check something for you, Chels.  Um- That is actually hurting your cr- your electromagnetic field worse from doing that because you're actually hiding, um, people that could be soul contracts. Um, you're messing up your soul purpose, you're messing up their soul purpose if they are contracted to learn from you, and you are instilling in your electromagnetic field that, um, you need to hide yourself.  So I would not do that anymore and I would own showing up as who you are and being okay with people knowing who you are with your mask off. So much love to you. She's like protecting your energy. Uh, no. Um, yeah, it's creating a bigger issue of, um, you hiding and you feeling insecure about yourself, like not sharing until I'm rooted.  Um, the stuff you are sharing you are rooted too. That was kind of like a way your subconscious twisted that around to get you to feel more safe and secure, but actually, um, you're 100% rooted to the stuff you're sharing. It's just you're nervous about who's watching it. So I would kind of dive into that a little bit, for sure.  Okay. Perfect. Okay, you guys can write your question in, um, if you have any other questions, but I will get into Maggie's question who she had something to say, and she's on replay. Um, she basically had a friend that she was very, very close with, and now that she's kind of reconnected with her she has felt like she has seen her friend slip into a lot of traps of society, normalizing stress, her husband doing drugs when he's going out, just a lot of stuff going on, um, that Maggie doesn't approve of.  So she's wondering if they are just spiritually on different paths, because she feels like she cannot share her beliefs and tell her friend what she thinks about her beliefs. And then it's starting to feel very superficial. So what I will say for this is are you on different spiritual paths? Sure. Yeah, absolutely.  Your consciousness, your frequency is a lot higher than your friend's, but what I will kind of revert you guys back to is that not every single friend or person is meant to play all the parts for you. So we talked in a podcast, the compatibility podcast, about how there's four markers to compatibility, and we have been conditioned with Hallmark movies, um, Disney movies, all sorts of entertainment that one single person, whether it's like your ride or die best friend, your mom, your husband, your boyfriend, that person is meant to play all the parts.  They are meant to make you whole. They are meant to, um, fulfill all your needs. And what I will say for that is sometimes, and what we talk about in that podcast, is sometimes you're gonna grab your needs from different people to kind of fulfill the wholeness. So Maggie, while you can't maybe go in depth with her within spirituality, you have a whole community here of girls that you can go in depth with within spirituality.  That friend doesn't have to play all those parts, is what I would urge you guys to look into. And then also another thing I would bring up, Maggie, is that this idea of unconditional love, it's meeting your friend where she's at, and sometimes we feel the need to overshare or say what we know is true, right?  And we like to just insert that in and be like, "Well, this is a reflection. This is blah, blah, blah," and then we try to solve... It's the solver in us. It's the empath in us. It's the healer in us. But what is more balanced is going, "Man, I love this friend for exactly where she's at. She may not believe in a lot of the same stuff I believe in.  I may be able to go a little deeper than her, but what does she bring to the table that I really enjoy?" And rerouting those thoughts of having her have to fulfill all those needs in order to be in your life. I'm getting a 99% that you understand that. So thinking of that as you guys are navigating relationships is going, "I love them for where they're at.  I love my mom even though she doesn't understand what I do. I love all the things she brings to the table, and I think she's perfect just where she's at, even if I... maybe my humanistic mind thinks that she's a little conditioned. She loves watching CNN. She does a lot of things that are radically different than what I choose with my life.  It's never my job to inflict knowledge on her and make her grow in a way that she's not ready for or choosing to because of free will, right? My mom can continue to watch CNN. And you have to get to this point where you're like, "I don't care what this person is doing with their life. This is their choice.  This is where their soul path is, and it doesn't phase me. I love them for who they are and what they are doing today." Does that make sense to everybody here? And that can be a tough thing to swallow when you are wanting to... when you disagree with somebody, when you're like... And, and when it starts to bring in- Family members, right?  Or, um, like my sisters, they, they have babies right now, and they parent radically different than I do. I could see in prior years going, "I gotta tell them about some of these parenting choices I make, and why they should make these parenting choices, and how their babies are getting hurt by making these parenting choices."  And I would've felt compelled to share all these things with them. But the balanced approach is going, "I love right where they're at. I love what they know. I love the way they're parenting their baby. I love that they're following what they think is good and true in this moment, and that's all my heart can feel for them."  You know? So it's this idea of unconditional love, and it's again going back to this, this idea of if people are draining you, if people are, um, feeling, you're feeling like they're toxic to you, those are all reflections pointing back to you. You should be able to go up to different people that have a different consciousness level than you and still feel whole within yourself.  You should be able to protect your energy enough where somebody isn't coming in and leaking it and draining it without your permission. We are always giving away that permission, and when we understand how to stop that, we should be able to be friends with a baboon, a mouse, a anybody, and be like, "This is their life, their choice.  Super happy for them. Um, this is what I'm doing for my life. This is what feels authentic to me, and really what they're doing isn't any of my concern. I love them for where they're at." How do you guys feel about that?  You guys are like, "Woof, you're really bringing in the fire today, and I don't know if my ego likes it. I just don't know. I don't know if my human likes you right now, Maggie." So that's what I would say for that. Maggie, if you are watching the replay, email in if you have any other questions for that. But we should be able to find the joy in any conversation in understanding, um, what we can pull from the conversation.  There should always be gold nuggets from the conversation. There's always wisdom from every conversation. Um, and if you can kinda reframe and extract what you can pull from that experience, extract what you can pull from that conversation and see what you gained from it, that's a really good exercise to do as well.  Instead of trying to create a bubble around you of people that think like you, act like you, are high conscious like you do, there's a, there's a, there's room for that, right? There's a lot of pros that can come from being surrounded by spiritual growth, but it shouldn't be the only thing. You shouldn't be only connecting with people that are of your consciousness, um, and formulating this environment where it's only that.  We should be able to have both, have that, have that- um, growth from that spiritual community and still be out in society and enjoying society and enjoying the people that you're around. Okay. This was a really, really, really good webinar. Lots of things to ponder. Lots of ways to start reflecting on the minor tweaks that you can have and that you can create in your life to create more peace, to create more boundaries.  And like I said, utilizing the group to figure out how rooted you are to a situation. And if you are in the more advanced level where you know how to clear reflections, you know how to handle that situation, then you can go on and, um, course correct if you find that people are being your inside out voice.  Okay? All right. Listen to the replay a couple times if you are trying to grasp this information. Um, this was more of an advanced webinar. This was more of a sit and chew and ponder. You guys are probably over break gonna be like, "Maggie, I have this question. I have this problem." I, I totally get that this was a little bit more of a brain buster.  So good information for you guys. Email in if you guys have questions, and we will take care of them. Like I said, we'll be tuning off Friday for two weeks, but you still send the email. We'll just get back to you when we can. Okay? All right. Any last-minute things? Okay. Sounds good. Marinate over this, and we will see some of you in the drop-in hour in just 20 minutes.  I'm gonna go clear our energy. I'm gonna be back for those of you guys that are coming to the drop-in hour. And otherwise, some of you I will see tomorrow during our intuition class. Otherwise, I will see you guys in our next webinar. Okay? Much love, you guys. I will see you guys very soon.   Hello, Ashley. Hello. I have missed seeing your face. How are you? Where have you been all of my life? I know. I know. I- I'm ready for class tomorrow, though. Oh my gosh, me too. I'm so excited. Yeah. I was gonna, I was gonna respond back to your school comment and say that sometimes when we're all together, that high frequency...  You know how you keep saying, like, "I feel so good when we're in class, and then I go out- Yeah ... and I kind of feel like I'm stumbling"? That is very, very typical. It's the high frequency of all of us being together and kind of sharing and compounding that energy. So what I would suggest or recommend for you is to go back into the replays, because when you're in the replay, you're gonna feed off that energy again.  Okay. It's, it's gonna be like a re-tapping into that high frequency. Okay. That make sense? Yeah. When is the, um, last class supposed to be uploaded? I just got the videos in last night. Okay. I haven't got the integration exercises in yet, but the videos are up- Okay ... for you to watch. Yeah. Okay. S- Chelsea. She says, "I h- I second that.  Helps so much to watch the replays." Yeah, I feel like there's so much potent energy when we're live together and all of our consciousness comes together, that when you go out then in the world, sometimes it can feel a little less then. So to, like, re-boost yourself up is to get into the Telegram chat, watch the recordings, all that good stuff.  Okay. Um, yeah. So yeah, the... You guys can take a look at that today. I'm gonna try to get the integration exercises in today. We're doing a lot to wrap up. And this is just, like, a PSA too. We, as Whole Family Health, are gonna shut down from, um, Friday until the 5th. So we're all gonna take... Like, the entire team is gonna take off, so we're not gonna do...  And there'll be an email that comes out too, but there's gonna be no classes, webinars, anything. Podcasts. We're gonna all take the rest of the year off. So you guys can email in, but we'll probably get back to everybody's emails that first Monday. So just so y'all know, as we're all heading into the holiday season, how we feeling?  How we feeling about the holidays? Are we stressed? Are we excited? Anybody? Ron's like, "I don't know." I'm excited. Yes, Ash? No, I, I don't know. I have mixed feelings about it. It's been a, it's been a struggle Has it this holiday? Oh- Yeah ... because of, um, was it in-laws? Yeah. Hi. Yeah. So yeah. So I'm just, I'm counting down the days till I'm, like, past visiting with them.  Remember, what I will tell each of you guys as we head into the holidays, and I've been mentioning this a couple times, but just to re- reshare it, be very diligent walking into meeting or, like, your get-togethers, your holiday get-togethers. Get your aura super snug. Timeline it for the entire day. Get your...  Do the energy detoxes. Get everyone else's energy out, get yours back in, put your shield up. Do all your energy work, your boosting of your chakras, your auras, all of it, so that you are nice and protected throughout that day. And just go into it being super mindful of how you're feeling, and anything that's starting to trip you up and making you feel triggered.  Maybe make even, like, a little note section or be like, "I gotta go to the bathroom," and see if you can go quick, like, balance it out. Were you able to, Ash, watch that, um, balancing of the emotions where we did a chi chart? Was it last webinar? Ash, were you able to watch that? I would go in and watch that too before the holidays.  And even if you guys can, I don't know, make an excuse if you guys have babies that nap and things like that. Catha probably is the only one here that still gets to sneak out for a little bit and nurse or, you know, get to have a reprieve. Those are always my favorite times. Like, "See ya in two hours. I'm gonna go take a nap with child."  But then you can, like, kinda recalibrate and go back out balanced, if that makes sense. So... Or I was talking to, I think it was Chels too, um, making a list. Even if you guys make a list of, like, what felt yucky this year, and put it in a note section for how you can better next year, that is really helpful too.  Sometimes I think that after the whole year passes, you kind of forget what re-triggers you, what re-puts you in a bad mood. So making a mental note of that this year and going, "What do I wanna do different for next year?" If that makes sense. Okay. Catha, how you doing, girl? Good. Look at this red light we're all blessed with today.  Yes, we are. We are blessed It's amazing, and my husband loves it too, so it's perfect. Good. Oh my gosh. Yeah. I love it. I love it, love it, love it. Was it Ashley that was saying it looked like a haunted house? Yeah. You guys should see our house in the middle of the night too. Everybody's got a red light, nightlight, like, in the bath- every bathroom, every, every area of the house.  It's like you really truly are, like, waltzing through a red light sanctuary over here. So funny. And we've got Sarah here. Perfect. And we also have a lot of people that are on replay that, um, sent in their questions. So, okay, as we get going today, please feel free, you guys know that these are informal.  Write in the chat if you guys need anything. Um, we will stop and take care of your questions. So today we're gonna be talking about how to cope with our friends and family, people we love dearly, who just do not understand our gifts, do not understand our interests, level, and some of the spiritual stuff.  Uh, I always speak from experience. You guys know that. You guys... We talked about, I think, this last time that you guys can hear my heart when I say that I've been through this, when I say that I've been through the wringer with people not understanding what I'm doing. And, um, even the people that I am the closest to, even my husband Tyler, who is so...  Like, I would honestly say one of his biggest strengths in loving me is he has always accepted me for who I am, and he's allowed me to morph and change and evolve all the time. And he is very, very supportive of every single version of myself, and that has been over the last 15 years. So he has seen me radically change over the last 15 years.  Um, and sometimes we giggle about it 'cause it's like I w- he would never have guessed that I would've went down this path. Like, it was just never in the cards. It wasn't anything of what I was like personality-wise early on in our relationship. So all that being said, even though it's one of his biggest strengths, he's also been my inside out voice a lot, being like...  I, I remember him clear as day being like, "Why would you ever stop doing your nutrition business?" Like, he didn't get it. He didn't understand it, right? When I went from whole foods, non-toxic living, and built this entire platform and app, and all, all my people, and I w- was feeling very unaligned with it.  And I was like, "I don't think this is what I'm supposed to be doing anymore." And he was like, "What?" You know, he was like, "I don't understand you. You just spent three years, four years, five years building this." Um, I don't think... You know, he even, like, flat out said, like, "I don't think this is a good financial move for you.  I don't think this is..." Um, you know, he butt up- butt against with what I was saying about myself, and, uh, made me question if I was doing the right thing. I also have another- little quote he said, um, where early, early, early on, years and years ago, where I was like, I j- w- like, when I was thinking about moving from nutrition, I was like, "I just want to be, like, a talk therapist, and I don't know how I'm gonna do that, 'cause I don't wanna go to school and I don't wanna be a counselor.  But I wanna help people with their emotions." And I remember he kinda, like, laughed, and he wasn't trying to be rude, but he was like, "Good luck . Like, I don't know what you're trying to do. I don't know what you're trying to say. Like, how are you ever gonna build a business where you're literally helping people with their emotions when you don't have a degree?  You h- you don't have all these credentials to support this and back this up." So, and this is coming from a place of love. And, like I said, he is so supportive of all my wildest dreams, but even the utmost supportive partner that loves you unconditionally and allows you to morph and evolve will be your inside-out voice.  They will share... And if you don't know what an inside-out voice is, we're gonna get into that today. But they will share the doubts and questions that you are sharing inside your own heart, and they will mirror it back to you, okay? And it can feel really challenging. And I think even as a society, we have grown to, we have grown to kinda get into this mindset of, like, toxic people, right?  And you see all these quotes and people that are like, "Cut all the toxic people out of your life. And if they're not serving you, like, get them out, and they're such a drain, get them out." You know, all of that stuff surrounding, um, that even I have, like, fallen into years and years prior. I had one specific cousin who was really, really close to me, and I, I cut her out and, and grossly went away from her because I felt like she was not serving me.  I kinda had that, like, "She's toxic," and I, and I don't wanna be around that energy. But what you will come to find is everybody is a mirror to your internal self, and we're gonna get into that today, and it can be very challenging to have some of these beliefs. Do you guys feel this in society? Do you guys know what I'm talking about, where it's like this positive...  or this, not positivity, this toxicity between relationships and how to protect yourself and cut them out? And if they are not, um, prioritizing you and kinda taking care of you, then you should just X them out of your life. And it, we're gonna get into that today because- Really, truly, if somebody is triggering you and somebody is making you feel a certain way, like they're draining you, it really is a reflection back on you and you not having the proper boundaries up.  So taking this radical responsibility of what are they teaching me? What are they showing me? Because all in all, we should be getting to this place of unconditional love. We should be getting to this place of, um, not feeling triggered. And when we're in complete neutrality, then we should be making decisions about who we want to spend time with, okay?  This is the same for marriage advice. If we are feeling like we are... Or if I'm helping a client with marriage and they're like, "I'm just not, I'm not seeing eye to eye with him. I'm frustrated. There's arguments." Those are all refrec- reflections, what we call reflections. Those are all triggers, and really what I take clients through is getting to a place of complete neutrality where your marriage is the best that it's ever been, and you still choose to walk away.  You still choose that that person is not right for you. But until you're in this neutrality space, being completely clear-headed and taking out the reflections, it really is creating decisions based off of high emotions, is what it is. Does anyone have any questions about that so far? Okay. So, wow, Chelsea says some fire emojis.  Yeah, it's, it's the most balanced source, like, perspective and viewpoint on relationships, and it's easier. It's the easy route to just cut them out, right? And be like, "This is, this is making me look a little bit too hard in, okay? This is, uh, making me... Having to do a little bit too much internal work, and it would be a lot better if I could just take you out of my life."  But the biggest thing you will come to find out is that those reflections don't dissolve, right? How many of us have heard of and, and know of marriages that have ended because of X, Y, Z, and the next relationship that comes in mirrors that exact pattern, right? They're still retr- um, recruiting in similar patterns.  I think of that, um, within a lot of family members that I know of, when you kind of l- like ex that friend out or you ex that behavior, somebody will come in and play that same part, 'cause you never learned that lesson. You can never outrun your reflections. They will always come and find you, because the life lesson has not been learned yet.  So from a very, very source-like perspective, that's what we're going to get into. But I also understand from a very human perspective how challenging this can be. Like I said, I've dealt with, um, Tyler not, not... Like, you know, being my inside out voice and sharing the different parts that I wasn't understanding about energy work or intuition or some of the spiritual laws.  I had from a very young age been able to communicate with spirits and ghosts, and I remember very, very specifically when I was young being like, "Mom, I just, um, I just talked to Grandpa," or, "I just did this." And all of them would be like, "No, you didn't." And like, "You're crazy. You're making it up." Or I remember being like, "I can't sleep.  There's people in the room with them, room with me right now. I can feel them all around me." And my parents being like, "No, that's not true," you know, and telling me that, um, my reality wasn't truth. And these are all different versions of inside out voices where people are not believing you, people are not supporting you, people are not seeing your vision, seeing what you're going through.  And from a very ego and humanistic standpoint, it can feel very confusing. It can make us sway and make us doubt ourselves and go, "Well, is this real?" Like, am I really not feeling something? It make you, can make you feel crazy. It can make you feel all sorts of negative feelings and, um, really pushes that agenda of not being your true core authentic self as well.  So from a human perspective, I get it. We're gonna get into some different tools and ways that you guys can combat this, um, as you learn this lesson, and this is going to be ever-evolving, okay? There's not going to be... We should never be trying to get to this point, and we talk about this for the ladies that are in the emotions program.  We talk about this where we shouldn't be trying to never have another issue again, right? Like I- Don't want you guys to go in and be like, "I hope that I never have another relationship issue where somebody doesn't support you." I want you guys to reframe that and go, "Thank God that person was telling me this piece about myself I wasn't understanding.  Thank God this person was giving me this gift of communication so that I get to know myself a little bit more, and I get to see where I'm a little bit off balance." And really truly, when we... 'Cause, 'cause what happens is when we get into that space of, "I hope that I never have a disagreement again. I hope that my partner always supports me.  I hope blah, blah, blah, blah, blah," it causes fear, it causes letdown, and more than that, it causes this shame within your body that you're not doing it right, right? You have all the tools, all the knowledge, and somehow you're still in it. That's what we kind of start telling ourselves, like, "I, I've already invested.  I've already learned all this. Why am I still going through..." You're life lessons, and I'm just here to tell you, you're always gonna go through life lessons. You're always going to go through obstacles. You... What, what happens on a very energetic and physical level is, um, my dad used to, I mean, say this to me all the time with business, "New level, new devil," right?  You hit another income rank, you're going to have your next slew of issues, your next slew of obstacles. Um, when you reach a new level, new things get presented to you about the same issue, right? So I don't want you guys to feel like there's ever an end. There's not an end. It's just, um, new interpretations of things that you've been struggling with.  Ways to advance yourself. Does that make sense to everybody? So I can tell that sometimes we get into that mind trap of, "I should know this. I should be beyond this." You know? And I want you guys to really focus on reframing that, 'cause it just, it causes more rips and tears in your electromagnetic field.  So when we get into the spiritual and energetic law of reflections, okay? Um, you may have heard me share about this. People that are watching on replay, you met- may never have heard about reflections before. And this is this principle that I kind of opened up with here today, that is like whatever we are holding inside to ourselves, other people will mirror that to us in whatever capacity.  So, uh, Charles, I loved your question that you asked, what was it, this weekend? Are there any positive reflections? You will only ever get a reflection if you are imbalanced. So the minute you start to go off your soul purpose, the minute you start to become a villain in your own story, other people are then going to take and mirror that to you.  And the reason that is, is because you have already played that scene of villain inside your head hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of times, and what the universe does is it puts it back on somebody else so you see them as a villain, you see them as doing something wrong, and you start cheerleading for yourself.  Does that make sense? So if I were to be having a reflection, and let's say that my reflection was, um... Let me think of one real quick. Let's say my reflection was this, um, this friend doesn't... Let's say that it's, that it's my mom, and I'm like, "She doesn't ever support me. She doesn't ever ask about my business.  Um, I'm so frustrated that she doesn't tune into what I find is so joyful in my life and that I'm so excited about." Let's say that I'm, like, getting cranky about that, and, um, then I see her as the villain, right? My reflection is that she's mirroring back something internally, and then inside my own heart, I am going, "Well, am I being really supportive of myself?  Am I being, um, excited for myself?" And then I start going, "Yeah, I am being excited for myself. What? I did this, I did this, I did this," and you start pushing up your own cheerleading abilities because that person was mirroring it back to you. Do you guys see how that kind of starts to take in? So at first you were being really hard on yourself and you didn't know it.  She mirrors it back to you. You kind of turn that just humanistically and go, "Why is she doing that? Oh my gosh." And then you start cheerleading and amping up yourself, and with that, the reflection starts to resolve. Does everybody get, understand how that happens? So it's this really, really beautiful, beautiful system that we have when we can learn to view it in the right way.  So really, truly, the only way that you start to have reflections is if you're being a villain to yourself. If you are... You're kind of like your happiness meter and your cheerleading meter and how balanced you feel, the minute you start to go off is when you start to create reflections. The minute you get into heavy emotions is when you start to create reflections.  So really, really important. Nobody on the outside can ever do anything to us that we have not already done to ourself a couple hundreds of times. All right? So, um, when you guys are dealing with- this excitement that you guys have towards the universal laws, towards intuition, towards energy work, towards self-healing, and you go off in this bubbly excitement of like, holy crap, like I cannot believe this exists.  I'm like, it's spewing out of me. When you go off to do that and you're met with resistance, does anyone want to like unmute themselves or write in the chat? What is that saying about the person that is reading our energy?  If we are excited and I am like, oh my gosh, I just learned this, you go to share with a friend and they are questioning you, resistance toward the information, what does that say about me?  You have doubt underneath all that excitement. You have doubt underneath all that excitement. Absolutely. So they really, when you intuitively look in, if you have highly trained intuition, which some of these girls live here do, you can see when you clock how resistant they really are to the information, you'll see it's like zero.  They really don't give a rip about what you're saying. They really have no personal preference to it. They are just energetically reading your broadcast. That's all it is. They really don't care what you're saying and don't have a solid opinion on it, but they are just reading your broadcast. That's all it is.  So girls that have intuition, next time you start to be met with some of that resistance, I want you to go into it and clock and go, are they really resistant toward the information? And you're going to see that the numbers are so low. Do they really care about the information? You're going to see that their numbers are so, so low.  It's really, really interesting. And what that is with the law of reflection is it's our inside out voice. That's what we call it, is when somebody else is from the outside is being the voice that we have internally. And you'll see that your kids take on this role. You might even have one kid in particular who is always like giving it to you, right?  Mine is my son. He is always like just my biggest voice. And you'll see that the people kind of beep up too. So it might be your kid for a little bit, then it might be your partner, then it might go into somebody that you are friends with. It's going to kind of move around, but you will always have an inside out voice that is reflecting what you are thinking internally.  Does anyone have any question about who their inside-out voice is right now? Do you guys want me to intuit who that is for you? Katha comes back to the screen and she's like, "Yes, yes!" Um, that is so funny. Her head just, like, peers from the red darkness and she's like, "Don't forget about me." Um, okay. So Katha, husband.  Husband is it, like, 80% of the time. Mom is often it, though. Mom, is she kind of that person that- Yes, we got very close, but she's very spiritual too. So actually, also with my husband, I feel very supported. Yes. Does he... But do you sh- do you sh- feel like you share a lot of what you're learning with him to, like, in depthly?  No, not so much- Yeah ... because maybe he's not so interested. Yeah. Or- So I think if you really went and you were like, um- Yeah ... "I learned this today. I learned this. I learned this," you might see that he would present you those- Yeah ... resistance and doubts and things that you're still processing and working through.  Yeah. I shared the numbers you gave me, uh, with the business call, like the money numbers, and he was like, "Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha." See? So that was definitely my inside-out voice. And what was your reaction, Katha, when I told you those numbers? Yeah. I think it was pretty much the same, where you're like- Yeah, probably  "I can't wait to see that happen, sis." Like Yeah. So, um, yeah, so funny. So yeah, husband is, like... I think if you used it more... Okay, good. Mm-hmm. I didn't want to... Um, I, I think if you used it more and you were to go in depth with him- Mm-hmm ... he would mirror that back to you a little bit more. I love bug. Yes. Um, Ashley- Thank you.  You're so welcome. Ashley, yours is...  Um, yours is kind of split as well.  Um, husband does as well for you, and in-laws is also another reflective piece for you. Does that make sense?  Um, I don't know. You don't know. Um, it feels like it kind of tosses and turns between, um, your husband does, yes, I feel like is resistant at times. And yeah, it feels like your in-laws as well, which you have... You've shared a lot with your, was it your sister-in-law? Yeah, my sister-in-law and my in-laws are both- They've really, this year since...  I feel like since I started doing the programs, they've really challenged me. They've stepped up and they're like, "Let me help you, sister bear." Yeah. And you're driving me nuts. Our human self gets very frustrated. Yeah, so I'd say those are your two biggest mirrors, that they really kind of take you off course and make you doubt and question yourself.  Like, "Am I doing the right thing? Am I on the right path?" Like, they make you feel less than, but also, like, are you doing the right thing? Yeah. So those would be your two... And like I said, it's gonna flip-flop between husband and them, so keep an eye on both of them. Okay. Charles, Nick is for sure one.  Is it father and mother-in-law? It feels like and then your father and mother-in-law is... I'm not sure what she said. Nick. Mom I only got, like, 65% of the time, Charles. Um- Did you say my in-laws? Mm-hmm. The parents. I didn't think about my in-laws. Yeah, they're a big trigger. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Welcome. They're big mirrors for you.  Um, again, they cause that confusion- Hello ... and doubt. Mama. Mama. Um, to you being like... And they just really rev you up. They rev your energy up where you're like, "That didn't need to be said." Like, you're just, like, a little frustrated. Um, so those are gonna be your two biggest mirrors. Sarah, um...  Sarah, I'm not sure if you're live here. Uh, ex-husband. Oh, okay. Do you feel like he- Yeah ... hits you with resistance? Okay. Um, yeah, he seems like a big mirror for you. And then in-laws. Nin-laws not really. Um, daughter. Yeah. Which makes sense based on our previous past webinars. Yeah. Son is only at, like, 80%, so he doesn't seem as big of a mirror to you.  Okay. What about my current husband? Current husband, 91, so he'll step in at times. Yeah. Um, but it seems like more of your triggers come from ex-husband. Yeah. Like, he's still playing the part. Um, but also this was just coming to me too, Sarah, for, um, my intuition, thinking of cutting the cord between you and your ex-husband as well.  You have a cord together- Yep ... uh, that's causing still the emotions to wave between the two of you. Okay. So we can maybe, if you wanna email in, we can talk about- Um, next steps for that. But that might be an idea to stop taking on his energy, him stop taking on yours. You kind of have this exchange still happening.  We do. That would definitely help with the mirror situation. Okay. Yeah. Um, any other questions on that? Nope. Okay. Yep. Um, okay. And then Maggie, 'cause I know you're listening from afar, but you're sleeping right now. Um, Maggie, yours is husband for sure, cur- your husband. Um, and then feels like a, there's a colleague too, Maggie, that is, uh, very triggering to you, um, almost like has a element of argumentativeness to themselves, and you find it very irritating.  So I would take a look into that colleague too, and when you're listening and watching the replay, just email in and we can kind of nail down who that person is. Um, so these are gonna be kind of your biggest inside-out voices, okay? So what do we do? We know that we have these inside-out voices. We have a couple options now to deal with the reflective component.  What do you guys think we could use as solutions if we now understand this law, and we go, "Okay, everything that's happening in my reality is a mirror towards what's happening in my internal reality. I know that this person that is meeting me with resistance..." If you have intuition, like I said, you can clock it and go, "Okay, they don't really care about it," right?  Um, Tyler really didn't care about my nutrition business. He was just reading my energy. What can you guys... What are some of the solutions you guys can use now with this information moving forward?  Chelsea said, "I never connected this, but my father-in-law drives me crazy 'cause he's so unserious and too goofy. And my mother-in-law is so critical." My two pain points. I was just gonna say that before I read that. I was like, "Well..." I love you. Yeah. They're, they're mirroring that, um, that internal balance.  Oh, that's so funny. So you will... guys will start to see this, and what I want you guys to do, you guys have a couple of options, okay? One is I would try to reframe... refrain, not reframe. Refrain from sharing the excitement until you are rooted to it. Okay? We've talked about this a little bit before, but when you have a goal, if you share it, you start to change the energy of it.  Do you guys know why? Let's say I have a big income goal, and I'm like, "I wanna hit X amount in 2026." If I go and blab my mouth and I'm like, "Dad, guess what my income goal is? Tyler, what's my income goal? Guess what? Guess what? Guess what?" What starts to happen with the income goal? The energy changes. How?  You start to invite in their thoughts, right? You start to go, "Hey, Dad, I have this income goal." And Dad's like, "Well, that feels a little far from where you're currently at. Are you sure that you have everything set up?" You start to bring in the criticism, right? If you haven't hit the goal yet and formulated the plan, and got it very, got very rooted to the plan of how you were gonna create that income goal, how you were gonna make it happen, um, all the s- the surrounding details around it, and then you go to share it, you're inviting in that inside-out voice, right?  That's how you're changing the energy. You're inviting in the criticism. You're inviting in the judgment. You're inviting in their ideas that you don't necessarily need, but now are messing with your current ideas of what you thought you needed to go get it done. Does that make sense? So you're changing the energy of it by inviting in everybody else's energy, thoughts, opinions, et cetera.  So my biggest piece of advice would be either, A, you can choose to not share the excitement until you are 100% rooted to it. So those of you with intuition, you can clock how rooted you are to intuition. You can clock how rooted you are to energy work. You can clock how rooted you are to a topic that you're going to share about in your next podcast.  You wanna clock it before you go out and share it. If you are listening and you do not have a highly trained intuition, we have a lot of master intuitives that are here and that are inside of our community over on that school platform. If you post and you want to pose a question, we have a lot of people that can give you that answer.  So that is one way that you guys can combat this, okay? You can keep your personal interests and excitement close-knit to your body until you feel that you are really solid in it, okay? When... The other reason you kinda wanna do that is because there is something to The energy as well, you have a certain amount of people, this is more business mindset, but some of you here are, have, are starting businesses within this.  If I were to learn something new, and I were to go and blab to Tyler about it, and I would be like, the intricate details, and I'm talking to him for like an hour about it, and I'm like really sharing all about it, I had a certain amount of people that were going to learn that information from me, a certain amount of hours of people learning from that, a certain amount of people that were gonna pay me for that information, and now Tyler just took a spot of that.  Does that make sense? So he is going to be my student for free. Would I rather have a paid client? Perhaps. Would I rather have that in a webinar? Perhaps. But because I kind of sliced off some of that pie and gave it to Tyler, when Tyler maybe didn't necessarily want it, care about it, or know about it, he just got that type of content for free.  So something to think about as well if you guys are starting your business. This is another great pointer for those of you that are doi- that are intuitives, and you are wanting paid clients for intuition. If you are using all your intuitive skill sets and doing free reads for people, and it's not in fair exchange, you will not be having paid clients come in because you're already using up that intuitive read for free.  Does that make sense? I can see Ashley's brain literally exploding. She's like, "Oh, crap. I've got to keep my mouth shut," she says. So something to think about, okay? Um, you have a certain amount that you are in alignment for right now. When we are kind of giving this stuff out for free, it is changing that alignment.  Really, really, really interesting stuff to think about. So we have one thing where we, we have one option. We can keep it close-knit to ourselves, right? We can... Until we fully understand it, we feel connected to it, we feel rooted in it, we're not gonna go out and explain it to other people. Okay? And, oh, I just had a thought and I lost it with that.  Oh, um, that rootedness, it's also very important to understand that that rootedness is not going to come from just listening to Maggie talk, right? As humans, we need to feel and experience- Being rooted in it. You need to feel and experience intuition working for you. You need to feel and experience intuitive reads being accurate for you.  You need to feel and experience how balancing out your emotions bring your trigger down. If you're just consuming me talking or a podcast, feeling excited and enlightened about it, and then gonna go and share that information, you're probably not that rooted to it. You need to firsthand in life have those experiences.  Does that make sense? In order to build that believability within your body. So another really good point. So we've got this first option. We can kind of keep it close to our heart. We have this second option where we can be in awareness and go, "Okay, I just shared this. I'm meeting... They are meeting with me with resistance," and thank them energetically and be like, "Thank you so much for showing me where I am not certain, where I am not rooted.  I'm gonna go in and fix that," right? Like, "What you just told me word for word is something that I am not rooted to, so I'm gonna go work on, um, building that believability." So you can have that encounter, and then go do the internal work around it. The last option that you can do, and you guys can pick and choose which one feels the safest for you depending on your skill level as well, the last option is you can, um, actually clock their consciousness levels as well.  If you go, "I, I do feel rooted to it. I still feel like they don't understand it," if you have precise intuition and you've trained with us, you can actually clock their consciousness level to see if it's even something you should be bringing up in the first place. 'Cause as we've talked about before, and actually we have an entire podcast episode coming out on this...  What's today? Wednesday. Tomorrow. Um, people's consciousness level is going to dictate whether they relate to what you're saying and whether they're going to understand the spiritual stuff. If they are a younger soul, they honestly will not be able to meet you in the depth that you are and be excited and understand all of this stuff you're learning right now, because their soul just was not meant to learn it in this lifetime.  They are off learning different things, and they will not comprehend what you're saying. Does that make sense? So for example, I talk about this on the podcast tomorrow, but my mom is a little bit more of a younger soul. My dad is very much an old soul. And so my dad really understands what I do for work and is very interested in it.  And even if he doesn't, um- really get what I'm saying. He's always up for listening to me yap about what I'm doing, and he understands it, and he would never... He, he's just somebody with a very open mind. He's an older soul. He connects with what I'm saying. He wouldn't ever be met with resistance. My mom, on the other hand, thinks that what I do is crazy.  Okay? She's a younger soul. She can't literally wrap her head around what I am saying to her. And so part of this is understanding, hey, Mom is not going to fill all these pieces for me. She is not going to ask me about business, but I have all these other people in my life that are interested in what I do about business, and more than that, I'm really interested in what I do about business, and I don't need their validation.  Okay? So it's also understanding some people can just not physically go there, and if you have a trained intuition, you can go in and clock is their consciousness able to accept this information? That is another piece to the puzzle. So when I am out at a park, let's say... And by the way, people in Utah just love chatting as moms.  Like, we didn't do this in Wisconsin, but every single mom I meet in Utah at a park is like, "What's your name and number?" Like, "Let's get together." That did not happen in Wisconsin. You did not exchange numbers. I have so many people that are like, "Beth, Utah," and, "Sarah, Utah." Like, all these rando names that I don't know who they are because we are always changing, exchanging numbers at the park.  Anyways, when you go to introduce yourself, as an intuitive I am clocking their consciousness and going, okay, Beth from Utah, she is at this consciousness. She's not going to understand if I go really deep into what I do, so I'm just sharing that I do energy work. Does that make sense? I might meet somebody else, Liz, let's say.  Beth and Liz, the same name. I might meet someone else, and I may clock her consciousness and go, ooh, like she's gonna really resonate with what I'm saying. I'm going to go all the way with her. She's gonna get it. We're gonna click. It's gonna be great. So that is another piece that you guys can do to kind of buffer and go, where is this person at?  So three different solutions. Do you guys have any questions on this so far? I got a question, Maggie. Yes. Um, for me it's difficult because I'm sharing everything, or, like, not everything, but a lot now on Instagram- Yeah ... as you said, like, so people can find me, and there are many colleagues and friends, like close friends, who are, um, obviously, like, watching everything, and then they're of course asking.  Yes. And that's sometimes difficult because they are seeing what I'm sharing, and then they're asking, and then it's difficult to l- like, not go that deep or, like- Go that deep. Yeah. So are they meeting you with resistance where you are feeling like- They're doubting me, or is it- Some ... some are- Yeah, some are meeting with resistance, but some are just curious.  Yeah Just curious. So what I would do is I'd kind of split that into two boats, and I'd be like, "Curious friends, um, let me clock their consciousness and- Mm-hmm ... see if they're open to this information." Okay? Even people here in Utah, like, they're... I don't know if you guys know this, but the... it's heavily Mormon here, and they've got very, very, very strict religions.  One of my best, best, best friends here in Utah that we've met that is real- our kids are best friends, she is very, very strict Mormon. And slowly over the last couple years, um, I have... Not years, year. It's been a full year, yeah. Um, I have been able to ma- like, clock her soul, and she's actually been, like, an intuitive and a healer in past lifetimes.  So over these last, whatever, 15 months, I've divulged a little and little to the point where she's like, "Teach me intuition. Teach it to me. I know I want... I know I should be doing this." And she's always messaging me, so interested, so excited. Maybe 15 months ago would've been like she would be so, like, not of candidate to talk about this stuff because of how boisterous she is within her religion, but she's actually ended up being the most interested, the most curious.  So I've been able to clock her soul and be like, she actually... I have a soul contract with her to actually help her remember. Um, so you'll see that a lot in the people that you are you and curious, Catha. Going in and being like, are they meant to learn from me? Even the people you are like, "My God, they'd never be into this.  This is crazy", you'll find that actually you are serving a huge purpose in awakening them. Okay, perfect. So, like, just seeing how much I share with them when they're asking, right? Like- Yeah, so it's going to be asking the intuitive question of, um, let's create some filters for you right now. Is this pers- does this person have a soul contract to learn from me, yes or no?  Feels like 86% of these people that are curious, Catha, do have a soul contract to learn from you. It w- what it is is it's you, uh, you're uncomfortable sharing this side of you. So you feel very weird that people in real life are watching you do this, and it's just a reflection for you. Um, but she's like, "Yeah, tell me something I don't know."  Um, so I would work on that reflection piece, but 86% of them, they are actually supposed to learn from you, and might even turn into paying clients later on. The people that are doubting you and causing resistance, that's also a reflection. So I would take those pieces and go in and solve that reflection For the people that are doubting you.  But you have a little bit of a different situation because you can't necessarily filter and monitor who's showing up on your feed to watch you with your business. So you have to work extra hard with putting yourself out there that you are rooted with what you're saying. And I would even almost every single post or story you share, do a quick clock of how rooted am I to this and then post it.  You want to make sure you're at 100% before you're sharing stuff. Because so this is like so interesting on social media. People that have these very big accounts, I don't care how big you are. If you have constant people commenting under your posts, bringing in negativity and also judging you and bringing in these like argumentative comments, you have all these huge influencers that are posting it then to their stories and like defending themselves.  It's really funny to watch once you know this because you're like, it's just you. It's just you having this. They're all reading your script broadcast. And so if you were to solve this large influencer, you wouldn't have literally anybody batting what you're saying. Like our account, we have, we like I can think of maybe one comment ever that has been combative to me.  I went in and I was like, oh, like I did feel this way. Thank you. I did feel this way. But you you can have an Instagram and a social media platform where people are not arguing with you at all because you are rooted. And how you get to that point is before you speak, ask yourself, am I 100% rooted to this information?  Do I have 100% belief, memories to back it up, experiences to back it up? Is this from my heart? And this is kind of getting off on a little bit of a tangent, but this is the disconnect too with people using AI is it's not their heart. It's not their thoughts. It's not like chat GBT and stuff. People can run their mouth all they want about how artificial intelligence is the next blah, blah, blah.  And everybody's job is being taken away. We can energetically feel when something is not real. You know what I mean? When it's not coming from the person's heart, when it's not being spoken from their experience, we can tangibly feel that. We are like, this feels very inauthentic. This feels dry. This feels like we just are not going to have a personal connection to it.  So everybody that's also trying to like write their captions and posts and stuff from chat GBT, they're also going to have that pushback because it's not really them writing it. So okay. How do you decide or limit the information you're sharing openly versus paid client? Okay, let me answer these in s- chunks.  How do you decide or limit the information you share openly? Do you mean share openly like on for business, Ash? Yeah, if you were like to share information with a friend or family member or whatever, how do you go about sharing that information if it's not within fair exchange? So what kind of information?  Just like the laws of the universe? Yeah. So that's, that's just like common, or not common knowledge, but I guess that is teaching a little bit, but they could go off and find that information themselves. What, what would be more of fair exchange would be like the intuitive reads, and really getting into like the thick of how it works.  The minute you start giving advice, right, and you start going, "Well, the reason you have this," instead of, "The reason you're attracting in this, and blah blah blah blah blah blah," and you start working your intuition and stuff, that's when you'll get cut from fair exchange. Okay. And so if you were giving information and somebody was interested, how do you transition from sharing information to taking on a paid client?  So I would say, um, and this is gonna happen to you guys all the time, uh, you will find that once people connect to you and go, "Oh my gosh, she has such good advice," she can... They, they will be able to intuitively feel the connection between you and their heart and their soul, you know, and be like, "She is so balanced.  She always has great advice. She's high frequency." You will see people will start to flock to you. Like I have a lot of people here in Utah that I would say were, are acquaintances or even good friends that will just voice note me five to six minute long audios every single week just telling me about their life.  You know what I mean? They're asking for solutions. They're asking for advice. What I like to do is I like to go, "You know, in order for me to give my very best advice, I really have to be in my office. I really have to like not have all of our kids around. I have to be in the zone in order... I, I would never wanna mess up that energy for you for the advice, so this really has to be something that I do in my work zone."  Okay. Does that make sense? Yeah. Yeah. Um, that seems to work really well to kinda deter people, um, a- from kinda crossing that fair exchange line. Okay. Yeah. Okay, does that clear up the confusion, Ash? Okay. Um, so we have a couple options up here on how to deal with people not- Understanding you, not supporting you, and being met with that resistance.  Like I said, it's gonna take a little bit of time if this is a new concept for you to really digest this and go, "This is something I'm doing to myself. I gotta go in and figure out how I'm doing this to myself. I gotta go in and clear it." Or if you are newer to this concept, what I would do is I'd keep that energy close to you until you feel rooted enough to share it, would be my biggest recommendation.  And like I said, going into our school community and going, "Hey, will somebody clock me on this? I was, um, about to share this." The other thing that I want to also just drop in here that's coming to me right now is that not everyone is meant to learn from you. I was just, um, thinking of this the other day as I was trying to instill something in my son and daughter, and I was clocking, and I was like, "Oh, like they are not supposed to hear this from me."  And I was evil- even able to trace it out of which teacher was really gonna instill and bring this home to them. But remembering that you're not always the person that needs to deliver this content to this person. Sometimes there's different people that are going to come in that your son or daughter or your spouse even, or, um, the people you're trying to share this with are going to connect with more than you.  Okay? So that's another intuitive question that you can ask, "Is this person meant to learn this from me?" It's very humbling when the answer is no. No. Um, so something else to keep in mind. Okay, let's see. Um, we talked about that. We talked about the formula. Um, let me get into some questions here because we are running at the hour mark.  Um, Chelsea, "I block anyone I know and don't want them to watch." Chelsea Zukowski. Is that how you say your last name? I don't know. But it feels like the same as Monsters, Inc., so that's what I say it in my brain every time that I read your emails, so God bless me if that's not how you pronounce it. Let me just check something for you, Chels.  Um- That is actually hurting your cr- your electromagnetic field worse from doing that, because you're actually hiding, um, people that could be soul contracts. Um, you're messing up your soul purpose, you're messing up their soul purpose if they are contracted to learn from you, and you are instilling in your electromagnetic field that, um, you need to hide yourself.  So I would not do that anymore and I would own showing up as who you are and being okay with people knowing who you are with your mask off. So much love to you. She's like protecting your energy. Uh, no. Um, yeah, it's creating a bigger issue of, um, you hiding and you feeling insecure about yourself, like not sharing until I'm rooted.  Um, the stuff you are sharing, you are rooted too. That was kind of like a way your subconscious twisted that around to get you to feel more safe and secure, but actually, um, you're 100% rooted to the stuff you're sharing. It's just you're nervous about who's watching it. So I would kind of dive into that a little bit, for sure.  Okay. Perfect. Okay, you guys can write your question in, um, if you have any other questions, but I will get into Maggie's question, who she had something to say, and she's on replay. Um, she basically had a friend that she was very, very close with, and now that she's kind of reconnected with her, she has felt like she has seen her friend slip into a lot of traps of society, normalizing stress, her husband doing drugs when he's going out, just a lot of stuff going on, um, that Maggie doesn't approve of.  So she's wondering if they are just spiritually on different paths, because she feels like she cannot share her beliefs and tell her friend what she thinks about her beliefs, and then it's starting to feel very superficial. So what I will say for this is, are you on different spiritual paths? Sure. Yeah, absolutely.  Your consciousness, your frequency is a lot higher than your friend's, but what I will kind of revert you guys back to is that not every single friend or person is meant to play all the parts for you. So we talked in a podcast, the compatibility podcast, about how there's four markers to compatibility, and we have been conditioned with Hallmark movies, um, Disney movies, all sorts of entertainment that one single person, whether it's like your ride or die best friend, your mom, your husband, your boyfriend, that person is meant to play all the parts.  They are meant to make you whole. They are meant to, um, fulfill all your needs. And what I will say for that is sometimes, and what we talk about in that podcast, is sometimes you're gonna grab your needs from different people to kind of fulfill the wholeness. So Maggie, while you can't maybe go in depth with her within spirituality, you have a whole community here of girls that you can go in depth with within spirituality.  That friend doesn't have to play all those parts, is what I would urge you guys to look into. And then also another thing I would bring up, Maggie, is that this idea of unconditional love, it's meeting your friend where she's at, and sometimes we feel the need to overshare or say what we know is true, right?  And we like to just insert that in and be like, "Well, this is a reflection. This is blah, blah, blah," and then we try to solve... It's the solver in us. It's the empath in us. It's the healer in us. But what is more balanced is going, "Man, I love this friend for exactly where she's at. She may not believe in a lot of the same stuff I believe in.  I may be able to go a little deeper than her, but what does she bring to the table that I really enjoy?" And rerouting those thoughts of having her have to fulfill all those needs in order to be in your life. I'm getting a 99% that you understand that. So thinking of that as you guys are navigating relationships is going, "I love them for where they're at.  I love my mom even though she doesn't understand what I do. I love all the things she brings to the table, and I think she's perfect just where she's at, even if I... maybe my humanistic mind thinks that she's a little conditioned. She loves watching CNN. She does a lot of things that are radically different than what I choose with my life.  It's never my job to inflict knowledge on her and make her grow in a way that she's not ready for or choosing to because of free will, right? My mom can continue to watch CNN. And you have to get to this point where you're like, "I don't care what this person is doing with their life. This is their choice.  This is where their soul path is, and it doesn't phase me. I love them for who they are and what they are doing today." Does that make sense to everybody here? And that can be a tough thing to swallow when you are wanting to... when you disagree with somebody, when you're like... And, and when it starts to bring in- Family members, right?  Or, um, like my sisters, they, they have babies right now, and they parent radically different than I do. I could see in prior years going, "I gotta tell them about some of these parenting choices I make, and why they should make these parenting choices, and how their babies are getting hurt by making these parenting choices."  And I would have felt compelled to share all these things with them. But the balanced approach is going, "I love right where they're at. I love what they know. I love the way they're parenting their baby. I love that they're following what they think is good and true in this moment, and that's all my heart can feel for them."  You know? So it's this idea of unconditional love, and it's again going back to this, this idea of if people are draining you, if people are, um, feeling, you're feeling like they're toxic to you, those are all reflections pointing back to you. You should be able to go up to different people that have a different consciousness level than you and still feel whole within yourself.  You should be able to protect your energy enough where somebody isn't coming in and leaking it and draining it without your permission. We are always giving away that permission, and when we understand how to stop that, we should be able to be friends with a baboon, a mouse, a anybody, and be like, "This is their life, their choice.  Super happy for them. Um, this is what I'm doing for my life. This is what feels authentic to me, and really what they're doing isn't any of my concern. I love them for where they're at." How do you guys feel about that?  You guys are like, "Woof, you're really bringing in the fire today, and I don't know if my ego likes it. I just don't know. I don't know if my human likes you right now, Maggie." So that's what I would say for that. Maggie, if you are watching the replay, email in if you have any other questions for that. But we should be able to find the joy in any conversation in understanding, um, what we can pull from the conversation.  There should always be gold nuggets from the conversation. There's always wisdom from every conversation. Um, and if you can kind of reframe and extract what you can pull from that experience, extract what you can pull from that conversation and see what you gained from it, that's a really good exercise to do as well.  Instead of trying to create a bubble around you of people that think like you, act like you, are high conscious like you do. There's a, there's a, there's room for that, right? There's a lot of pros that can come from being surrounded by spiritual growth, but it shouldn't be the only thing. You shouldn't be only connecting with people that are of your consciousness, um, and formulating this environment where it's only that.  We should be able to have both, have that, have that- um, growth from that spiritual community and still be out in society and enjoying society and enjoying the people that you're around. Okay. This was a really, really, really good webinar. Lots of things to ponder. Lots of ways to start reflecting on the minor tweaks that you can have and that you can create in your life to create more peace, to create more boundaries.  And like I said, utilizing the group to figure out how rooted you are to a situation. And if you are in the more advanced level where you know how to clear reflections, you know how to handle that situation, then you can go on and, um, course correct if you find that people are being your inside out voice.  Okay? All right. Listen to the replay a couple times if you are trying to grasp this information. Um, this was more of an advanced webinar. This was more of a sit and chew and ponder. You guys are probably over break gonna be like, "Maggie, I have this question. I have this problem." I, I totally get that this was a little bit more of a brain buster.